Is it normal to dream about your ex after nearly seven years?

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Today I woke up nearly weeping over this person that I want nothing to do with in waking life.
Seven years and some part of my brain is still not over it.. give me a break!!
I haven't had a serious relationship in that time....so that probably has a lot to do with it. But it really bugs me that this person is still somewhere in the back of my head, haunting me after all this time.

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  • jollycholly
    7 years ago

    Got kids with this person? If you do I can tell you that no matter how long it's been you will never ever completely get that person out of your mind. I know how you're feeling. Months go by and that bitch/asshole is out of your mind. Then one day/night poof! here comes a memory. I have two children with my ex so I can only speak from that standpoint. Today being Mother's Day I'm feeling the bitch a little even as I type this. But relax. Take a deep breath (or two). It's normal as hell to think about an ex sometimes. Just remember that you have a new life to live. Live it to the fullest. Okay? Yeah, it's Okay. :-)

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    Feelings have a way of resurfacing.

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  • Curiousme1981
    7 years ago

    They never mfing get outta your brain...I have crazy wild sex dreams of this dude and I want it to stop bcuz he got a ugly girlfriend. Yes I had to say ugly works at Walmart got a huge stomach ewwww...sorry to go on and on!!!

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    Yeah, it's normal unfortunately.

    Like Jolly said, live your life to the fullest. Start new hobbies, and learn new things. Maybe talk your past out with a therapist, or a close friend to help you sort through previous issues you never got over.

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