Is it normal to dream about him every night?

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So. Basically. I thought I was getting over my feelings for this guy that I've had a crush on for a few months now.
He has no idea who I am and I don't exactly know him either. We've never formally met.

He'll be a senior in high school while I'll be a freshman in college.
I thought to myself, "Oh, I'll probably get over it since I'm not even going to the same school as him this school year".

For the last few nights, I have had dreams about him confronting me, seeing me, being in the same room as me, etc. CONSECUTIVELY. What the heck?
I have been trying to tell myself to stop these feelings because I didn't want to bring false hopes to myself but my dreams are attacking me when I'm most vulnerable (sleeping).

This probably sounds like a desperate cry for help, and it kind of is.

What do you think about all of this?

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  • ThisIsImpossible
    9 years ago

    How bout you talk to him so you can finally destroy the giant pedestal you've apparently put him on when you realize he's just like any other dude

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      You're right. I have been. I don't know why I even have feelings for him but, I do.
      He's not attractive (by society's terms), he's just this guy I happen to think is nerdy and cute.

      I wish talking to him would be as easy as you put it. Since we're going to different schools now I don't know how we'd be able to communicate (before I clammed up inside and I wouldn't be brave enough to say anything to him in the hallways. Couldn't even look his way. Pathetic I know).

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      • ThisIsImpossible
        9 years ago

        I used to do the same thing man, always had that one girl I could never talk to that was constantly on my mind.

        The last one was this 6' angel, she had short black hair (like cortana from halo for lack of a better example haha) with dark purple and pink highlights in some places.

        She was built like a Viking warrior princess, tall and strong and curvy in the perfect ways, she had huge beautiful tattoos all over her body like a Celtic shrine to the gods that made her.

        Just seeing her made me weak and her perfectly white smile melted my brain. Sigh, I'll never see her again either, and she was always so nice to me. :( Fuck I was pathetic back then hahaha bitches ain't shit bruh, not no more. She set the standard so high that I've never met a girl that intimidates me in any way, so I guess she did help me with my depression in some small form. And for all I know she doesn't even remember I exist.

        Anyway, the point is if you see someone like that, you HAVE to try to talk to them, or they will settle into your mind without them even knowing, and that in itself is sortof unfair to them, and to yourself when you let them get away forever. You only get to live one life you might as well take a chance now and then.

        Plus you may find out he's a jerk and you'll be over him in like five seconds and never have to worry about it again

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          Oh gosh that made my day.

          I have to agree with you on what you said about having to talk to them. I don't know if I'll ever have a chance again.
          I'm staying local around my old high school and I know a friend who knows him but that's about it.

          Hahaha, true...he just might be a jerk but I'd be better off knowing than not knowing anything at all.

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