Is it normal to do something against someones will and enjoy it?

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My boyfriend Was partaking in bondage with me for the first time and I defenitely went too far. Eventhough I set a safe song (and he used it) I ignored it... In the moment I felt like I had some kind of little power where I could do whatever I wanted, and he (literally) couldn't say no, so I rolled with my feelings... A few wlts later, I realized was I was doing and stopped. I felt awful after the fact but in the moment it felt so good... IIN?

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Based on 49 votes (23 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    This is what happens far too often when immature irresponsible people play around with BDSM. What were you doing, using 50 Shades of Domestic Violence as a guideline?

    You are totally unsuitable to top anyone because you can't be trusted to stop when the other person wants you to.

    And by the way, WTF are wlts?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Welts***

      I follow no one! (Which is not a good thing I guess).

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        Well for the safety of anyone involved with you, you do need to follow some basic BDSM guidelines, THE FIRST OF WHICH IS OBSERVE THE SAFE WORD (or in your case safe song)

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  • Poes
    8 years ago

    It is not normal, you are a bitch and cannot be trusted! If you were a man you would probably be a rapist! Your boyfriend is a nice human being who was taken advantage of by a sick perverted slut! You have damaged your poor boyfriends trust in other people to such an extent that he will be able to allow anybody else to ever "fuck" with him again...shame on you, you little sick perverted trollop!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Trollop lol... Never heard that before

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      • Poes
        8 years ago

        He he he, you have just given your age away, you are a young woman indeed! A trollop is a woman of the night whom normally stands on street corners in short mini skirts to advertise herself for sale!

        Are you now more certain of the meaning of the word "Trollop", it is courteous for prostitute!

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  • Lonely2
    8 years ago

    In your case its a gray area, I mean for Chrissakes it was s&m, it does depend on what you did....but just recommit to respecting boundaries

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    8 years ago

    Sounds like a solid plan

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    8 years ago

    >.< dont say these things

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  • yourdeepestshame
    8 years ago

    Sure, it's normal, if you're into rape.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Is it though?

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