Is it normal to dislike the first time you have sex?

I lost my virginity recently and the guy was horrible. (He was a virgin to, so I guess I can't complain too much).
He stuck it in me twice and just stopped. It was so disappointing. I was expecting more than that.

Can I still consider myself a virgin...if I didn't enjoy my first time? Lol...

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  • Grunewald

    I've heard that it's normal, and no, you're not a virgin anymore. You made your choice. For your sake, I'm sorry you made that particular choice. But now you have to assume it. I know that it's not easy. We have all made life choices we have regretted and can't undo.

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  • Tinybird

    I lost my first kiss to someone who manipulated me and who I didn't even like and I don't count it as a first kiss, so why count your first time as your first time if you didn't like it. It doesn't count

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  • Vvaas

    virginity is a social construct

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  • greekfish

    Yeah I think that’s normal. As for your virginity I’m afraid you’ve lost it. But it’s okay if you didn’t enjoy your first time. There are many more to come I’m sure.

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  • Orphan

    Sure, if u feel it wasnt really sex, then consider yourself a virgin. Next time lead the way

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  • Savmitch1

    Virgins, by definition, have no experience. I would expect any Virgin, male or female, but especially male to be bad the first few times. Most guys will blow their load within a few strokes the first several times until they calm down!

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  • Curiouskitten444

    My first time was awful but i make sure whenever i have sex with a virgin that i make it an open minded and loving environment.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    The thought of virginity is kind of stupid anyway but you arent a virgin

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