Is it normal to demand a prenup prior to marriage?
Long story short: I worked hard to buy my house and I don’t have a mortgage. I offered her the deal that whatever we had before marriage remains ours, while whatever we earn after marriage we earn together. She yelled at me for “planning for failure”, when all I want is to protect my net worth. The net worth gap is significant (factor 10+) as she has always been on state support, while I have been working hard (we’re the same age).
I thought that it would be a fair deal to say that anything we earn after marriage is shared… Is my request really that unreasonable?