Is it normal to date a 32 year old

I'm 23- female and there's a potential romantic interest who is 32-male, I know the age thing doesn't really matter, we get along and talk for hours etc, it's just that I'm a virgin as well and not planning on losing it anytime soon while he on the other hand has a lot of sexual experience as well as life experience as well. I'm fresh out of university and have never worked a day in my life so there's that. Is 9 years too much? How many 32 year old guys would be willing to just hang and not engage in sexual activities regardless of the quality of conversation and companionship.

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  • kradmelder

    Age isn't the issue, it is life stage, which is often age related. Like if he were 32 divorced with kids and doesn't want more, and you 23 and still want kids, the difference in life stage would be a issue. if you want to go clubbing and he wants to settle the life stage would be an issue.

    But if you a very mature 23 yo and he is still an immature 32 yo it wont matter. Generally with age comes responsibilities. If he doesn't have any yet and you both want the same, then you have no issue.

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    • shuggy-chan

      All of this^

      Life stage/maturity is the make and break

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  • NathanScot

    The fact that u get along well and talk on the phone for hrs is a good sign that ur compatible.From a guys perspective i'd tell you i dont care bout the age diffrence and neither should you .What matters is that it feels good being around you,being with you and hopefuly one day,if u let me....in u.

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  • KingTermite

    No sex = no relationship. He won't stay or at least remain faithful for long unless he's a complete chump and I'm assuming you don't want to be with a chump.

    So, put out or don't get involved. Anything else can only lead to tears.

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    • SandyGun5555

      God. You really do need a backlog.

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      • KingTermite

        Not sure what that is... is it fun?

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  • The_zoo_keeper

    You don't understand how it works. Either you fuck each other, or you get other partners. It is time for you. Have him teach you the ways of sex.

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  • cocknballs

    Hell you could be 18 and he could be 70... we have to work at it our whole lives whereas you were born with it and starts declining at about 30.

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  • victorygin

    If you both get along well and you don't notice the age difference, then it's not a problem. Nine years really isn't that much anyway.
    I had the exact same age gap r/ship when I was 23, and I was a little self-conscious about it. But looking back, there was no need to be.

    If the quality of conversation and companionship is great, I would want to keep hanging out anyway. But there is an expectation that sex will be a part of the relationship. Otherwise, you may as well just consider yourself good friends.
    So, if he's a decent guy he'll be willing to take it as slowly as you want, but at the same time he's not going to hang around forever. You should talk to him about it.

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  • MrSexyJesus69

    Jeez, sounds like that must be a fairly strong hook you have on the end of you're fishing rod, have you considered adding more onto your line to hook some more? perhaps using chocolate as bait?

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  • BlueSparklez95

    Yes. It seems normal enough to me, OP. I wouldn't start worrying about a age gap until you're either counting a 18-year or more gap or one being under-aged. You're both good though. I hope it works out for ya.

    #I'mmaBlueSPARK

    "Life is like the fluttering Azure Blossoms in the sky; sometimes you see the true beauty of it, sometimes you do not."- BlueSparklez

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  • mystery7

    23 and 32 is such a small age difference really, esp as time goes on. I've been in relationships with twice that age gap.

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