Is it normal to constantly think of a girl i only went on one date with?

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went on first lunch date with a girl i met on plenty of fish.com.
we just had a 30minute lunch and just talked to get to know one another.
turns out we went to the same high school at the same time but never knew each other. left by just saying good bye, no hugging/kissing
she seems like a very nice girl and i find very attractive.
i find myself constantly thinking about her, finding every excuse to text her to just make conversation. i'm starting to fantasy about having a relationship with her, things we could do, places we could go, just being in her company. then again i hardly know her. just a few days ago she was a complete stranger. is it normal to feel this way about someone you just met?

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago

    From the setting you've described upon meeting her it sounds like it was very pleasant. I think that this is fairly normal. You met a wonderful human being and are curious to explore her. I think you should give her a call and arrange to meet up again.

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  • mindvomit
    11 years ago

    just remember to be careful to keep your expectations realistic, cause it possible to you to invest too much too, soon, But best of luck

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  • nobodyspecial
    11 years ago

    yeah, ask her on another date, if she says yes then you know she likes you, if not start looking for someone else.

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  • TerryVie
    11 years ago

    Attraction happens inexplicable and fast :)
    Very normal, just make sure you don't "swamp" her...take breaks in texting her and stuff like that. If you alienate her by pursuing her too much, too early, you'll ruin all your chances. Wait until your hormones calmed down a bit before making any move on her- unless she felt the same from the start she will feel creeped out otherwise...

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  • Drowz0r
    11 years ago

    It's perfectly normal but if you're using a dating site then it's good to consider your perspective on relationships at the moment. Some people (not all by any means) who use the sites can be especially clingy/desperate (I've tried them myself) so it's always important, like any relationship, to be just a little cautious and take it easy :)

    But good luck to you, hope it works out!

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