Is it normal to come home

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My wife married me because I had a good career, a good income and would be a good provider. I married her because I'd been in love with her since the second grade.
Friday afternoon I returned home from a business trip and the house was empty. Empty as in no furniture; even the fridge was gone. Even my clothes are gone. So are both cars. My computer and laptop are gone and only my phone remains. My wife does not pick up when I call.
We have two boys that are the light of my life. We do everything together; little league, Pop Warner, biking, movies and video games. We're best pals and buddies. They are gone, too.
The bank accounts are empty and the 401 is gone. I literally have the cash in my pocket, to my name.
I've been sitting on my living room floor since Friday evening, having eaten and drunk nothing. I can't see anything ahead. I probably won't bother with going to work tomorrow, or the next day.
I think I am a broken man. My boys are gone. My will to exist is gone. I need relief from this pain.
is it normal to come home and find your whole life gone? What would you do? At least I am an organ donor.

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Based on 13 votes (2 yes)
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Comments ( 9 )
  • CountessDouche
    9 years ago

    That's not legal. Call a lawyer; you're entitled to access your joint assets until a settlement is worked out (in the case of a divorce). It's also illegal for her to spend/sell your assets in an effort not to divide them fairly. Most of all it's illegal for her to keep you from seeing your children until custody has been disputed, unless she can prove that there's been some type of abuse.

    Please keep your head up, keep going to work, and call an attorney. You'll be able to see your kids again.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    9 years ago

    yall can git a fuckin lawyer and git half yalls shit back

    she cant just take everythin like that and she cant just take yalls kids away like that

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  • chained_rage
    9 years ago

    What would I do?

    Well... not log into IIN, for one.
    Then I would go to the police and have them open a case of theft against bitchtits so that they can hunt her down

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      You cannot file theft charges against a spouse; it's joint property.

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    Your job can save you. Spend extra time at work. You have to protect your job. Your job is vital to the future.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Go to the police and get a lawyer! I hope you have photos of your family on your phone. Good luck!

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  • noid
    9 years ago

    I'm so sorry. That is terrible.

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  • rainbowzebralove
    9 years ago

    dude she kidnaped your kids! like you can get her arrested for that! Call the police dude and file a report of your children missing and that your wife took them! Thats illigal for your wife to get up take the kids without your consult! Get your kidsback bromy prayers go out to you

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  • TareBear20
    9 years ago

    No, that's not normal. I don't know what I'd do, but I wouldn't give up. You still have your job and a paycheck every week, so go to work tomorrow. Start saving up for an apartment and don't let this bitch ruin your life. Don't blame yourself, either.

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