Is it normal to change my mind about girls a lot?

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Before you get the wrong idea, there is that girl that i have acrush on for two years until now... and i never changed my mind about her, but with any other girl , i change my mind A LOT like really fast .. i can be flirting with that girl today, sitting next to her in a bus touching her legs, and then the next day everything goes away ... AND IT NEVER COMES BACK... WHYY???

It may be because the girl is like all over me and i get bored but i feel the same way towards girls that are not all over me as well (get it?)

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    Yeah it happens to me too it's just that there are so many pretty girls out there, like I will have a crush on one girl then I see another pretty girl and I start thinking about the new girl and all my feelings for the girl I was thinking about before goes away. And it just keeps happening like that, honestly I wish I could date so many girls, even at the same time.

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  • Zeus_
    8 years ago

    Look at it from another perspective, the prehistoric human. Old age was around 21. Everyday was a fight to survive another day. Males mated with as many women as he could attract to keep his clan strong. Wasn't called "Dating" or "Courting" in those days. Was only about surviving.

    So my point; the males interest in different women is natural. We still have that, only we don't want to impregnate the woman in the first hour of meeting, like they did back then.

    Infatuation, can be described as Natures roofie, and it gives you a maximum possessive feeling over the other person for as long as the infatuation may last, a day, a week, a few years. Unfortunately modern stories and music refer to this as "Love", but it really isn't.

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    • Dread-pool
      8 years ago

      a roofie makes you pass out for like 12 hours. bad analogy.

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      • Zeus_
        8 years ago

        Not really a bad analogy, because, in a sense, you have passed out [of your rational mind] for a day, a week, up to 3 years. You've been drugged by nature. Today people think of this as "Falling in love", but really has only everything to do with mating, not love.

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  • Zeus_
    8 years ago

    This is infatuation, and this behavior and those feelings are very normal.

    We react chemically to different people. These reactions can last a day, a week, even years. Usually infatuation maxes out around year 3. In your case, with that girl, 2 years was the limit. This is because your body develops a resistance, so ending the closeness.

    Anyway, your reactions to these girls are very normal.

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  • muh-fuh
    8 years ago

    You're intimidated by aggressive girls..perfectly normal.

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