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I'm 22 yo, and I'm the oldest sibling, sometimes I act too much of a mother and I worry about things my siblings do even more than my parents do, I get overworked over silly stuff like them staying out late or so, and my worry (and dare I call it meddling) extends to family, cousins etc. , i really wish I could stop worrying but I can't help it !! IIN?
Let the parents worry about it. Plus, the kids/teenagers will just resent you for it. Be the best role model you can be and they'll look up to you.
Never had a sibling. Never met a cousin, aunt or uncle, so I do not understand how you feel, but it sounds quite abnormal. Also, it seems as though it's none of your business. How about you concentrate on your business and let others concentrate on theirs?
Yeah, you're supposed to be the cooler older sibling they can look up to and go to when in trouble. Your parents are supposed to be the hardasses that nag and piss them off. You don't need that job until you're a parent.