Is it normal to bring the op into question all the time on this site?
Something that really bothers me is that so many people here always question the OPs in a confrontational manner, instead of answering the actual posted question. I am talking about comments that are like: "are you a woman?", "but how old are you?", "did you go to the university?", "are you gay?", "maybe you are a bad girlfriend", etc, etc.
First of all, isn't it assumed that by default the questions are about general situations? For me when a person tells a personal story and wants an answer specifically about that story, it is the only time it is even relevant to question back the OP. If anything, the questions should be about the story and not about the life of the OP.
Personally, I sometimes write the stories from other people's points of view, so I feel perplexed when for some reason people want to know pointless details.
And well, I just wanted to rant about this a little, what do you think guys?