Is it normal to believe feminists don't actually want equality?
I'm all for equality. I think everyone should be treated equal no matter what race, gender, religion, social class, etc you are. But I don't think feminists actually want this. They want to be treated as superior to men. NOT ALL OF THEM, but a good amount.
Just one example: My feminist friend was telling me about income disparity and how her male co-workers are paid more than her. I asked if she negotiated her income. Nope. It is a fact that men negotiate income significantly more often than women. She completely rejected the idea that this might have something to do with it. Then she starts complaining that there are 10 guys and 8 girls in her office. I ask her what the gender ratio of people in her field was. Come to find out, there are way more men in the field than women. This is not equality, this is actually favoring women, yet it's still not good enough.