Is it normal to become relatively indifferent after sex or a wank?

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When I'm single I show incredible interest in girls I like. And because of the things I'd say over the phone or in texts with them, things will sometimes get so intense and excitable that both of us would need a breather. Before I wank, I will be extremely flirtatious, social, witty, excitable, smooth. But as soon as I wank, all that goes away or goes down to 10% from 100%. And for an hour or so, forget liking a girl, I dont even care about things in general. It's not that I dislike someone after a wank, I still like them but so uncontrollably as I did before the wank.

As for sex, I love my gf. We're a couple of happy idiots. But part of me feels guilty for being 5000 times more lovey dovey to her before sex than after. We cuddle, and make out after sex sometimes. I still love her, and care for her. But almost every time I have a strong urge, and find pleasure in being left alone after sex, and not even be touched lol.

Does anyone know what I'm talking about? Is this normal? How can I fix it?

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  • LizardSkin
    9 years ago

    Of course it is normal to become disinterested after orgasm. Your brain is releasing endorphins which produces the natural high that participates in stimulation and ultimately the orgasm.

    Your body is now in the process of cooling down and recharging.

    Hell I've felt downright depressed afterwards at times.

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