Is it normal to be whipped during foreplay?

I am building up to ask my girlfriend to whip me in the ass with a belt. I've had her slap my ass before, which turned me on. However, I would like to take things up a notch although I am scared that she will view me differently if this isn't her thing. I would like her to whip me in the ass with a leather belt or possibly even a car antenna. I have heard that some men enjoy being whipped in the balls, although I am quite certain I would not enjoy that.

is it normal to enjoy being whipped during foreplay?

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Based on 45 votes (33 yes)
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  • CountessDouche

    While this is not something I would be particularly into myself, I do like to keep an open mind about my partner's sexual...proclivities. So, on the spectrum of things that would weird me the fuck out if my boyfriend asked me to do them, this is pretty low, I think. It's really not THAT weird, OP; it could get so, so much worse. Just be honest with your girlfriend. I would be surprised if she freaked out. Who knows, she might even be into it.

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  • 5yellow_Nemos

    I'm certain that if she's been okay with slapping your ass, she's not gonna freak out if you ask for her to use a belt. Just casually bring it up. Good luck!

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  • magic7

    My wife and I read about Razor straps so I bought one for her and it was an immediate hit especially on my ass. The strap is about 18 inches long with an extra leather handle and 2 1/2 inches wide made of 1/8 inch horsehide. The strap is easy to swing and can really do a number on somebody’s bare ass.
    The good thing about the strap is that you can give someone 200+ licks of the strap without causing permanent damage. She was athletic strong lady and could really swing that strap across unmercifully all over my bare ass and legs sometimes my back. A pair of nylons we’re tied to the brass headboard so she could tie me up during the whipping. It will turn your ass bright red and make it sore for several days and then she can turn around and give you another one afterwards.
    You can buy them on line but get a good one. Mine hung proudly in my bathroom so all could see!
    I was my wife’s slave so giving me a whipping was definitely a turn on and we always had sex afterwards in unimaginable ways.

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  • golden_showers

    try buying a sort of whip from a porn shop and showing it to her and tell her you're curious about her doing it.

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  • wistfulmaiden

    I LOVE the idea of whipping a man. I never did on the balls I don't think youd like that at all but on the ass I think shed be happy to.

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