Is it normal to be upset right now?

I don't want to go too into it, but my boyfriend made a secret reddit account for looking at people's nudes and stuff and hid it from me for a year 😎

I still blame myself because I feel like I'm not good enough. My self esteem is pretty much crushed right now because he never asks to see me or initiate intimacy, but he can ask some porn account for their personal lingerie album easy.

Edit: I'd prefer advice that does not involve a breakup.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    If he'd rather fap at porn than have the real thing then there's something wrong with him. I'd leave if I were you. There's probably plenty of men out there that could satisfy you. Lol

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  • If he can hide that he can hide anything. Being in a relationship is also about being open with each other you don’t want to waste time on someone wondering wtf else they have hidden. It’ll cause more unneeded stress. If him being an asshole makes you feel bad on yourself go find someone new who will treat you with respect.

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  • Nednerb43

    Just blow him

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  • SKDM007

    sigh...

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  • RoseIsabella

    Leave him.

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