Is it normal to be uncomfortable with others feel attraction?

while i obviously feel attraction to others and desire a relationship myself, i feel deeply uncomfortable when others feel the same about others. this feeling worsens when someone i'm close to likes somebody. i tried googling this, but i can't find anything. does anybody feel the same? what could be a reason behind this?

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  • Wellyoudliketoknoweh

    its stressful, the person just is on and on about the other, happens every so often and is odd to watch. Normally if ur not used to functioning relationships it’s normal to refuse the topic, also with others. I dunno how u got to that point though

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    • lol, neither do i man.

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      • Wellyoudliketoknoweh

        It’s aliens.

        No but, try analyzing it even more, maybe it was just a small thing or it just is, as some people get anxieties and such without any outer body cause

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  • RoseIsabella

    I fear not being able to cast my vote in a poll.

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    • ah, a terrible fear indeed.

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  • Doesnormalmatter

    Fear of missing out. Throw that in the search bar over at psychology today.

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    • thank you, this was very helpful.

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      • Doesnormalmatter

        Hey np mate. Its prolly that with a combination of other things. Relationships and sex are very personal matters and enough is at stake that you can never completely remove your nerves and discomfort. You just want to remove the negative aspects enough to where the pros outweigh them.

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