Is it normal to be uncomfortable when your partner spends time with an ex?

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My boyfriend is surrounded by 2 exwives and some girlfriends and some of the girls are even friends with each other. I know there will always be cases when he has to see ex's and spend time with them at events because they have kids - birthdays and such, but does that mean I have to be comfortable with it? I trust in him that there is nothing going on or attractions anymore, but its not that - i just dont feel confortable with him being around them especially if alcohol is involved. Even though I am invited to these events, I would rather not go then feel like i am being sized up or vice versa.
Just need to know if anyone else feels like that and how they have dealt with it because my guy doesnt get it.

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Based on 43 votes (34 yes)
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  • ThisIsImpossible
    9 years ago

    He's got two ex wives for a reason right?

    HAHAHAHA

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago

      I went to the flip side. This guy would have to be an idiot to get married again. I don't even see how he could afford it, with 2 ex wives and assorted kids. Poor guy.

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      • 12eahtsdrateri
        8 years ago

        he just doesn't pay child support

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Ah crap I voted the wrong option. Add one to the NORMAL!!!!! button. I am a jealous person and would be highly bugged by my guy hanging out with his ex girlfriends.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    So, it's being "sized up" that bothers you, not the risk of him cheating on you with them?

    You don't have to go to those events with him if they make you feel uncomfortable.
    But, if you do trust him like you said, then you should have no problem with him attending these events on his own.

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  • cupcake_wants
    9 years ago

    Learn the art of deep throat

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