Is it normal to be turned on when getting racially humiliated by white women?

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I am a person of color. Publicly, I have a normal life - a full time job, friends, and a healthy social life.

But in my private life I have darker fetishes. I haven't had the courage to confide this to anyone. Although I am single now, I never told this to any of my ex-girlfriends. Some of them were white.

I fantasize about being racially humiliated by white women that I find attractive. Say for example, I imagine I am a slave of a white woman and she humiliates me by saying really racist things and say that I am worthless. She even asks me to do demeaning things such as lie down and kiss her feet. I get off on it.

I am a sub, if it wasn't obvious already. I have a fetish of being dominated by white women. In my fantasies, I even receive physical punishment such as being slapped and whipped for being a bad slave. Again, notice the racial undertone in being whipped. But all of this only applies in the bed room. I know it's contradictory but I don't want to be in a totally dom/sub relationship.

I have never done any of it in real life. But if I ever do it, I would like it to be limited to the bedroom only. And I would like it to be a roleplay. Outside the bedroom, I would want her to treat me with respect. Otherwise I cannot have a meaningful relationship. And I do not want to visit a dominatrix because that's not what I want.

These are like my deepest and darkest fantasies. Is it normal to have them?

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    It's very common to want dom/sub activities of all kinds in the bedroom but not in the rest of your life. There are lots of reasons why people want this, apart from ordinary curiosity or wanting to try anything new: for some it can be a catharsis of inferiority feelings and for others (eg strong feminists who want to be dominated) it's a way of not having to be in charge all the time.

    Personally I find the racial humiliation very hard to deal with: I've been asked to do it verbally a couple of times on the sex lines I work on and I had to refuse, because I just couldn't say racist stuff.

    If you seek out your local kink scene (google!) you'll almost certainly be able to find someone to fulfil your fantasy, although it mightn't happen immediately.

    Good luck and be safe

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    Where are you, my white wife would love to racially humiliate you, use you and then have wild sex with her slutty body. See her picture on my profile, she loves nothing better than a BBC.

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  • Carlton03
    7 years ago

    That seems normal to me and fuckin hot actually, I wouldn't mind a fantasy of a really hot girl putting me on my knees and I be her little slave for an hour or so and she is in a position of power like a boss/lawyer and I am the male assistant who has put in a bad week at work and need to make it up to her for that bad performance, anyone else find this hot? So yeah that seems normal to me mate and also if you really want it maybe consider making the fantasy a reality?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    Yes it is and no it is not.

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