Is it normal to be turned off with my ex coworker after her nudes

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i used to text a coworker every few months. no flirting just casual chit chat

a month after she left the company, she texted me late night 2am. very soon she started flirting and i flirted back and she asked if i wanted to see a nude i said sure as long as it doesnt make you catch feelings. she said it wont. she sent a couple pics they were hot i had a good wank and we wished each other good night

next morning i wake up and i have texts from her. i didnt reply for a few hours and to get my attention she sends another nude. i asked her dont send anymore unless i ask

since that day i have been really turned off by her behavior and have no interest ever talking to her again. even though uts been a month. iin?

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  • Mini69
    3 years ago

    It’s obvious she has a greater interest in you than just friends. If you don’t want to pursue that then you shouldn’t have agreed to her sending nude pictures in the first place and then wanking off over them. You sound like a creep who has just taken advantage of someone you call a friend. A real friend wouldn’t do that. If you want to salvage your friendship you should apologise to her and tell her this isn’t what you want from her. Tell her she caught you in a moment of weakness, or that you had drunk too much or something. Let her know she is a good friend and that you made a mistake, then it is up to her if she still wants anything to do with you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      but shes not a good friend i take the word friend very seriously she was just a chill coworker. i never called her a friend idk what you're reading into. once she changed jobs our relation was gone too. i never wanted to be in touch with her long term

      i agree i made a mistake and moment of weakness but is it 100% my fault when someone comes onto me at 2am like come on i dont chase girls for nudes but i cant promise i am strong enough to always say no if someone throws herself at me like that

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      • Mini69
        3 years ago

        So what are you worrying about. She is obviously into you but you don’t feel the same way so just tell her that.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          3 years ago

          she denies it

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          • Mini69
            3 years ago

            She’s lying

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  • Pilum
    3 years ago

    I guess in this current state of moral relativity of the world, it's permissible. Decent people will still frown on it though. I suppose I'm guilty of having done something similar, but I won't repeat the experience.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      yes. i have realized my mistake and what things i could have done better so i also wont repeat the expeirence again

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      • Pilum
        3 years ago

        Good deal, don't be too hard on yourself either

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    3 years ago

    I guess I've had that happen but I was alot younger and almost shy about sex at that point.

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  • litelander8
    3 years ago

    If I sent someone nudes and the responded by telling me to not do that again, I would be so embarrassed. That was fucking harsh.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      i think you misread. whats so wrong about telling someone not to send a nude unless i ask. girls hate unsolicited dick pics so why should it be any different for a guy. like are we supposed to be open for nudes or sex all the time from anyone?

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