Is it normal to be turned off by your crush if they like someone you hate?

Lets say there's this girl or guy you like, and they like you, but they also have a crush on someone you have an absolute hatred for, would you find your crush to be less attractive? Please tell me this is normal.

There is this girl I like, but she has a crush on this guy, who I really hate. He is one of those annoying assholes that enjoys being rude to people. And I don't know if they're dating because he hugs her sometimes, but that's all. I've always hated this guy, and the fact that she accepts these kinds of qualities in a guy makes me just not like her anymore? She's really pretty and likes me too, but I don't find her that attractive anymore.

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Based on 38 votes (33 yes)
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Comments ( 4 )
  • Azaman

    Asshole by association. Yeah it makes sense.. It's like finding out a good friend supports Trump...

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  • qualityaristocrat

    This is the mark of degeneracy.

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  • Thorolf

    It's perfectly normal and it makes sense if you think about it. If she likes him then she thinks his behavior is OK and that's not a good thing.

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  • yu-gi-ohChampion25

    yeah i cant help but hate them too.

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