Is it normal to be so frustrated when you love someone?

Ive never been so frustrated in my life until I met my bf. Hes the only thing that has made me so vulnerable, the only situation that has impacted me in any way. Im normally hard to bother, nothing gets me, if Im frustrated Im frustrated but not like crying, depression, psycho frustrated and thats how he makes me feel. Before you jump to conclusion that I shouldnt be with someone who makes me feel this way, let me say that he is not a bad person. I just love him so much that when things dont feel right, its harder than anything. Its not like he treats me bad, says bad things to me, etc, but his behavior sometimes make me go in circles. Idk if its just cause I love him so much so I take smaller things more seriously than I should be, or these small things do mean something. For ex, my bf has always had this bland personality. I want to shake him and make him respond to me. Hes actually a really sensitive person but he puts on this mask to show this tough personality like "idgaf" type. But maybe hes just trying to protect himself. But he should know by now that I wouldn't hurt him and if I did unintentionally, then I would be sorry. His bland personality makes him lack compassion for me. I feel like I have to take care of myself emotionally because he wont do it. Does he not care? or thats just how he is? I just go crazy cause like I said, I love him. Im crazy about him that when I look at him just as a person, I think I should just leave him cause he doesn't deserve me but then my heart gets caught up again and Im like "oh yeah thats why Im with him and giving him a million chances." I start crying and crying thinking more and more about what can I do and then I think why I love him and its all these feelings like no one has made me feel so much emotion, satisfaction, happiness, anything before and that makes me even more sad. Love hurts.