Is it normal to be sexuality attracted to guys (i'm a guy) but not emotionally

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I don't feel entitled to being emotionally attracted to guys, or I don't find attraction in having conversations with guys other than friendship or small talk. I'm not gay but some would say I'm bi-curious (I never slept with or dated a guy). I adore girls but I find myself getting turned on by guys too. I felt this way since I was 14, and the feelings grew stronger over the years. I've got my heartbroken by girls a few times, and it hurt me really bad. I like that I'm sexually and emotionally attracted to women. It feels natural to me. But outside of sexual fantasies and wanting have sex with a guy, I only see myself being romantic with a woman. Guys masculinity turn me on when I'm aroused but not when I'm not I sometimes feel like a normal straight guy and seeing gay stuff becomes unappealing. I don't feel connection with gay people or gay anything but I think about flings with guys. It confuses me.

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  • thegypsysailor'sUglyWhoreWife
    8 years ago

    My husband is the opposite, he loves men but can't get a hard on for them.

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    • flyingnostalgia
      8 years ago

      This is... way too trippy.

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  • sararyan7242
    8 years ago

    You need to have sex with a few guys and see how that feels.

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  • Zeus_
    8 years ago

    Sex does not require romance and love.

    Don't worry about what you are, don't need to label yourself, you are as you are.

    And getting emotionally hurt, that can happen with either male or female.

    Getting emotionally hurt, [aka: heart broken] is part of the risks of getting close to another.

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  • ChaoticNeutral
    8 years ago

    You aren't a man whore. I'm having the same issue I wrote about it. I think you're just like me. In a lot of ways

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    These are the symptoms of having tendencies that of a manwhore.

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  • Shamrock;)
    8 years ago

    i have the same problem and im sixteen. and its weird because it started at 14 for me too. guys bodies turn me on. sometimes even their faces. its normal. exept mines is muscular or skinny guys. but i adore girls

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  • Royalburden
    8 years ago

    There are hundreds of billions of people on this planet. Whatever fetish or anti-fetish you may have. There are at least 100 others who enjoy the exact same thing (Or find it repulsive) Nothing is unnormal about any fetish. Humans are fucking weird.

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