Is it normal to be scared early on into a relationship?

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I started dating this girl a few months back (we're lesbians) and she lives awhile away. I've never actually met her in person as we met online. We skype often and talk all day. She seems perfect, but I can't help but think of every bad outcome that could happen. What if I can't handle to distance? What i'm not who she thinks I am? What if she changes? Are things going too fast? Can I really trust this person? I guess what I am asking is, is it normal to worry this much? Or is this a sign of a relationship thats not meant to be?

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Based on 18 votes (13 yes)
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  • IndianaRose
    8 years ago

    Have you guys video chatted and stuff? So you know shes not a catfish.

    Its fine i date a girl in america n im in london (im bi)

    I worry all the time but i realised im everything she thinks i am

    Youll be fine hunny

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    • ghst
      8 years ago

      aha yeah we've face chatted. :-) thanks for your concern!!
      i hope the best for you and your girlfriend!

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Have you even discussed meeting?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      yeah, we're planning to after the holidays.

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