Is it normal to be scared 2 get into a relationship but want 2 at the same time

Yea this is normal. My best (gal) friend is like this and I'll tell you the same thing I tell her.

ALL of us have a someone. The trick is just finding them. If you give up searching, you give up hope, and we all hope cause that's what keeps us alive.

Now depending on what point you are in life, maybe you should give up dating for the time being. If you are in school, just focus on school so you can provide yourself and future family with a solid base.

You should also consider a couple things:
1. What are you looking for in a relationship? Someone for forever? Someone to share the memories with? A best friend you can kiss?

2. What traits do you want your significant other to have? Funny? Serious? Caring? Likes to cuddle? Good in bed? Whatever is important to you. You should make a list

3. What kind of person are you? As you move through new relationships, you learn new things about what you like and dislike.

My last relationship just taught me how much of am ahole I can be. I also learned that I can get extremely jealous. Two things I've never experienced in any of my previous relationships.

Hope this helps :)

Sounds like u set urself up for failure w/o even realizing it.

ya thanks guys this helps a lot :)

well, what can I say. I can really relate, if you ever find any answers let us know cause I'm willing to stay single forever to avoid feeling like that again and I don't really want to do that

Same here!!