Is it normal to be physically attracted to girls and still desire a man?

I assume you don't have much of a father.

You sound alot like my friend. She is more attracted to girls, and seems to have trust issues with men, i think partly from things in her past. But i love her, as a friend definatly, maybe more. But i try to be more reserve with her cause we tried doing a long distance thing before a lil , but we are both to dramatic people. i definatly give it a shot if we lived closer, and even still, i try my best to bea best friend i can and support her. I knoow she loves me to, but i doubt we ever get to date, so as long as i can support her, im happy. being loved is a great feeling, and doesnt need sexual desire to be meaningful

I think it's normal. It sounds like you're battling an internal conflict between a fundamentalist creed and a modernist paradigm. What I mean is that you like women and want to be with one (modernist paradigm), however, you have evolved with the religious dogma that a women should only be in love with a man (fundamentalist creed). My best suggestion would be to open yourself up to a man. I can guarantee you that not all of us are perverted Quagmires who are simply out to use women to feed our own voracious desire for pleasure. Find a man who you can trust and see if maybe your inner struggle quells as your relationship towards men changes. If at the end of the day you want to be with a women then I see no reason why that would be wrong or abnormal.

I feel the same way, I've come to the conclusion that as lesbians we've explored women to the fullest (like myself) and let them in. Since you haven't done that with a man, or never met one who brought it out of you, your stuck living with wonder its normal dont sweat it try exploring it

Hell Yes, it's normal! You love women but desire a man as well so there's not a damn thing wrong with that!

I feel a similar way. It is nothing to be ashamed about.

Sounds like you want a chick with a dick

I feel kind of the same. Some men I find attractive, some women I find attractive.

The trust and relationship aspect would depend on the personality not the gender for me.