Is it normal to be paranoid of being spoiled
I grew up in a lower middle class household as a single child BOTH my parents had physically abusive parent(s) as a result I overheard many awful story's like there dad pressing there face against a heatlamp.
This made me VARY scared that I was a spoiled brat. I would hurt myself, destroy my possessions and and refuse food all because I was scared of being spoiled.