Is it normal to be 'one of the guys', have a crush and not want to be feminine?

I have a friend in a similar problem; guys think she's one of the guys, most people think she's a lesbian, but she's really a hetero tomboy with a loving heart. The problem is that when these tomboys ask for advice, people pounce on them and try to turn them into preppy princesses.
I'd say sneak in a little femininity into your life. Got a big man's Metallica shirt? Wear a form-fitting girl's Metallica shirt. Short hair and no makeup? Grow out your hair and DON'T wear makeup or wear makeup and KEEP your hair short. You don't need to a Kardashian to win a man over, but embrace a little femininity and then a man will find your tomboy traits alluring. Like if you knew how to make cookies (<---a girly thing), but you were a kickass Halo Player or Hockey player...he'd be like SCHWING!!

You are a GIRL.

grabbing the penis always works

There is demand for your personality type in girls. It's just as matter of whether he's one of the guys that's into that...

You want to get his attention in a non-feminine way?
* Be straightforward and tell him directly.
* Spend a lot of time around him so that he gets used to having you around, then tell after a few weeks him if he doesn't crack first.

That's all I can think of.
As a guy, those are the methods that I think are most likely to succeed on me.

Good luck.

You can have a relationship without changing yourself.

On another note: look out it's another girl that hates women. I don't know why there is a goddam trend of people hating their own gender but it's pretty abnormal.

If you're close enough to him already, without changing yourself to be someone you know you're not, tell him how you feel, and ask him if he wants to go out to dinner or something. You'll easily get your yes or no.

Stop trying to be a dude perhaps

date outside your group

Nonchalantly lift some weights in front of him and then talk about how much you love "that deep burn" and talk about beer and sports. Then proceed to get naked for the sports shower room and slap his ass with a wet towel.
He'll be like butter in your hands. And by that I mean slippery as hell.

Lure him with boobs.

Telling a guy you like him makes him really uncomfortable. Be awre it might change the entire dynamic of the group if you break character and try to snag this guy. Just like it'll make a co-ed group uncomfortable.

You can be a bit flirtey but not to much or your taking it a bit fast just be cool and yourself he may just seem to like you back! :)

I dont like girly girls either, It's awesome that you can enjoy many of the same things we like!

I honestly wish they're were more girls like you. One of friends is just like this. She even has an Awesome Plymouth Duster!

Ooh, dribbling again, lol

Maybe you should quite being a dude.

Don't tie yourself down or pretend to be someone you're not just because of an image you've got. You wouldn't want to be a girly-girl because that's not you. Well, don't put on a show pretending not to be interested in him, because right now, that's not you either. You're someone who likes this guy. Be straightforward. It's who you are, and if he likes that, great. If he doesn't, it wasn't going to work anyway.

You're someone who's straightforward. If what you're thinking is "I don't know how to get out of the friend zone, but I like him", then walk up to him and say "I don't know how to get out of the friend zone, but I like you".

Take control! Be a man! The next time you see him, the very first thing you need to say is "You're going on a date with me on [Insert day here]. I'm picking you up at [Insert time here]." Then walk away and ignore anything he says because he has no choice in the matter.

More women need to be like that...I'm tired of having to be the one to make the first move. Quit acting all shy and coy! If you want me, come get me!

Yeah; I'm the exact same way. Except, I avoid being rude to people.

Is rudeness a masculine trait?? Anyway just tell him but he probably sees in you more of a friend than a girlfriend.

Jst be yourself if he doesnt like uu 4 tht thn he isnt worth it sad but true gd luck xx