Is it normal to be obsessing over pegging?

I recently got back together with my ex. We had/have been together for 6 years. Prior to our break-up our sex life was totally vanilla. Now I think I'm slowly coming to terms with the fact that I'm a nasty pervert. Since we've gotten back together it's gotten a bit more adventurous but it is mostly me that is asking for it to be more exciting. For example he slaps my butt now & then or sticks a finger in it. However, lately I've been fantasizing about role play, pegging, bdsm & I really just want to be dominant. When I approach him about the role plays he's like sure but it never happens. And ever since we've been together he wont let me touch his butt. In our real life he is sort of the controlling one, although I think he's attempting to be better about it. But recently I think he hid my vibrator. Anyways I am like almost obsessed with the idea of pegging a guy & I've even been looking online for guys that want to be pegged but I haven't done anything about it yet. Am I wrong to want to try out this fantasy with another man if my boyfriend continues to deny this urge?

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  • lawabidingcitxen

    Problem Solution in 5 steps:

    1) Buy a strap-on;
    2) Get him good and worked up;
    3) Discretely excuse yourself momentarily to the other room;
    4) Come back wearing said strap-on;
    5) See how things work out.

    Either he will submit or freak out. However it turns out you will know if the relationship is going to work out in the future. You can't deny yourself something that you desire (so long as it doesn't hurt anyone and is between consenting adults) and expect to be satisfied with your relationship.

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    Sounds like you either have to see more value in your relationship than your sex life, or find someone that is more sexually compatible with you. Cheating, to try pegging, is not the right answer, cheating never is. But there are plenty of guys out there that would love to find a girl with your interests! I know I wouldn't complain!

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  • dappled

    I can't see anything wrong with it and would most likely try it myself, but why would you feel obsessed with it? If it's an urge that is really controlling your life then you need to speak to your boyfriend about it. Either he lets you try it, or is happy for you to do it with someone else, or you split up. It's one of those three. Don't go and do it without his knowledge.

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  • Allysdaddy101902

    To the girls that wants to peg, please contact me at [email protected]. i would lovebit. Please!

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  • Pegmenow

    All I dream about is being pegged or taking a good hard cock

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  • It'sAllGood

    When i was a kid....

    lol. yes i was a teen living with a 25 year old. another couple in the house were into all kinds of things i thought were horrible and sick.
    she kept wanting to eat my ass. and finger fuck me. i would snap out and call her queers and faggots. all kinds of stuff.
    so... she got me in my sleep. I had taken a shower. and had already had a few beers. so when i passed out on the bed, i was dead to the world.
    i woke to the most powerful shock. i smashed my head into the wall. i reached around to push her off as her tongue was ramming in and out of my ass and then the world was blank. i melted into pure extacy. A couple of times i came out of it to find myself moaning.
    Then came the finger. !!! It hurt. This time i was able to fight a little more as her finger twisted and turned its way up into me....but.....then with the other hand she grabbed my cock....fuck.... i didnt have a chance. again..lol.. i melted. it was sooooo fantastic. having a woman own me....violate me. no role play. she violated...raped my ass. and...it was the greatest day of my life.
    take him and own him. he will love and worship you forever.

    but be careful.... if you hurt him real bad it will ruin it. so hold of on the big hard cocks until youve broke him in good

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  • Zion

    Why don't you tie him up on bed and hardcore tease him. Don't let him cum unless he lets you peg him. I mean what kind of guy wouldn't succumb to that sort of sadism?

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  • rustedwracked

    I am a guy that is in the same situation. I want to try it, but my girl doesn't want to try it. I agree with the come out with a strap on "on" and see what his reaction is.

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  • Ineedadvicenow

    I'm a perverted guy (not suprising) who loves getting pegged and you should know I'm here to help ;)

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    • Allysdaddy101902

      I am too

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  • snafu

    Nothing wrong with you or your requests, find someone more suitable,

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  • onecuriousgurl

    I'm not sure if I'm obsessing or not but I spend so much time fantasizing about it, and role plays that I'm starting to believe it's important to me to try. I've brought it up to my boyfriend but he wont let me touch his butt and he said he'd do the role plays & then doesn't so I don't know.

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  • moomus

    Right dappled, bend over and I'll get the lube out :0)

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    • ComTlancy

      Nah, bite the pillow. I'm going in dry

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  • UnrecognizableMan

    Just do it. What's the worst that can happen?

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  • smartpatrol11

    It sounds like you definately need to find a partner with the same interests as you. This relationship cannit last the way things so you either have to improve it or move on

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