Is it normal to be nosy in a relationship sometimes? literally just sometimes.

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I was on Skype with my bf since we are in a long distance relationship. While talking to my bf he was distracted by his phone and smiling. I just asked politely who is he texting with without being remotely nosy at all. But he went all "it's none of your business." I got hurt a bit but I didn't mind it maybe he wasn't being mean. Uhmm, then I saw him distracted again and smiling and I was like happily asking him what is making him smile on his phone. He replied, "You are nosy. I don't like it." I really felt bad. I'm not really being nosy but we were talking. He could've just told me that he should take that messages. It's not like I don't trust him. It's just he seemed kinda defensive about it. I'm not a controlling gf not even a sweet one. I was just literally asking.

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  • fukpeople
    10 years ago

    That's not normal of him darling. If someone gets that defensive over just being nicely asked 'what's making you smile on your phone' is suspicious to me. If he had nothing to hide in the first place then he wouldn't be so defensive that is a dead give away! This isn't really similar but I once had a close friend who said 'don't be nosy' when I was looking to see who had come up the driveway at her house. I found that rather random and mean, I suppose I am just saying this as some people are very weird and random. Though in your case I feel he is untrustworthy

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    • Chesteroooo
      10 years ago

      Ohhhh I get it now. We already talked about it and we are okay now. Thanks for the tip!

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      • fukpeople
        10 years ago

        ok well just keep a real close EYE BALL on him (.) (.)
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        • Chesteroooo
          10 years ago

          I will. :)

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  • plum6
    10 years ago

    I find this question so incredibly normal that I felt like commenting. You are not doing anything wrong at all :)

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  • randomthoughts
    10 years ago

    Sounds like he's cheating through technology, bloody bastard >.<

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    10 years ago

    It's not rude to ask. When you are skyping, and he is making it very obvious he is checking his phone and whatever on it is making him smile, of course you will ask!
    He is rude. If he is skyping his girlfriend, he should spend that time with you. He can check his phone after you have finished skyping. He doesn't need to check his phone immediately.

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    • Chesteroooo
      10 years ago

      You have a point. I did ask that time but yeah he got a bit mad. I'll keep that in mind whenever it happens again. Thank you. :)

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    The reaction wasn't great.

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    • Chesteroooo
      10 years ago

      What do you mean?

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      • Terence_the_viking
        10 years ago

        I can't remember i've been asleep since.

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