Is it normal to be mildly lesbian because all the guys i've met are immature?

OK, so I've liked guys my whole life. Until I realized: I've never met a guy who could EVER understand me, or even come close to sort of, kind of, almost seeing what universe I come from! It seems that women are like 1,000,000,000 dimensional, and guys are 1 dimensional, and that one dimension? SEX! I have met *a few* guys that could potentially come close, but they're all too old! LIke...sick-and-wrong-for-me-to-even-think-about too old! Anyway. I have much more interest in/fascination with women because it is easier for me to connect with them and the connection goes so much deeper. I don't think about women sexually, but I've also "lost" my sexual interest in men because I see how obtuse and one dimensional... if that makes any sense! I'm kind of in no man's land, leaning slightly towards women because they're so much more nuanced, interesting, introspective, intuitive, timeless, beautiful, empathetic, psychic, intelligent, graceful, lovely...

Sorry to ramble, and I don't mean to bash all you guys. I'd like to think you good guys(that are closer to my age!) exist, I just haven't found you yet....

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  • loving

    Being curious about other human beings of the same gender might not exactly mean "mildly lesbian". Probably , its much more like observation. I don't believe one can just gradually become homo or bisexual.

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  • disthing

    "It seems that women are like 1,000,000,000 dimensional, and guys are 1 dimensional, and that one dimension? SEX!"

    Wow, if that's how little you think of men, then yeah just go for women. Just so you know, you're a little bit sexist and your post is actually kind of offensive.

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  • nAt2017

    Yes, it's normal, especially if you're at an age where most boys haven't hit puberty yet.

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  • Try to experiment with girls. And also (if it helps) masterbuate! Try and find a connection with yourself before you find one with a boy. And I'm sure one day you'll find the right guy.

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  • girlboy

    I totally feel the same. I mean I feel more comfortable hanging out with my best friend of the same gender than having a relationship with a guy. I think I am falling in love with her. And I think this is just normal nowadays.

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  • shooboppdoowopp

    You just made it so much worse.

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  • Nightmare-Rex

    I acaly like talking to girl-freinds were most guys don't (they just pretend).

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