Is it normal to be jealous of your ex bestfriend for having new friends?

Having a bestfriend but her ways were to much to handle, but despise her for having new friends after yall broke it off.

Sloppy seconds you shouldnt care. 7
Go try and be friends again. 7
Its over with, leave it be! 19
Yes its normal, but kind of controlly. 20
Sounds like you miss her. :/ 30
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  • DandyElfman

    Perhaps are feeling like you were not good enough and feeling replaced?

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  • Metazoa

    Its normal. I was in the same boat with someone too at first, then I just didn't care and moved on. Showed the person that I'm not one to be used after the person tried pulling some crap and didn't think I'd do anything about it. They will continue with the behavior until you put your foot down. Once you do if the person isn't an idiot they may get the hint and cut their bullshit out, or keep doing it to which you def aren't friends and move on.

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  • normal to me! i am! and we havent been close for like almost 3 years!

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    "It's over with, leave it be!"

    With the comment about "her ways" it sounds like you're the one who broke the friendship.

    It might be "normal" to be jealous but... you also have to own up to the fact that she has every right to have other friends in the first place and that YOU chose to not hang out with her anymore.

    part of life is accepting the consequences of your actions and decisions

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  • Real

    control issues.

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  • Jealousy .. , It means u still care , we all have it between friends. Try and get a new BFF

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  • blahfase2

    sounds like this cunt I used to be friends with. She tries to befriend ALL of my friends :D

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  • it is normal but you just have to show them that you can cope without them

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  • wreckd

    Normal. But let her go.

    I've never really had a girl I could consider my best friend. I get jealous when they're with other girls too but then I realize, "Hey, I don't want to chill with her anyway."

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  • misszy

    Hmmm .. I will be jealous.
    I won't just cut best friend relationship if she hurt me and she didn't realize it..
    I'm not easy to hate someone..
    But it different if she gradually hurt me, or leave me then hang with another (without me).

    Conclusion is, I'm jealous because I don't think that she 'deserve' her new bff.

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