Is it normal to be intelligent, athletic, stable, but yet women still hate me

The first place to start is to respect yourself. You sound like a great guy, but I don't think you believe it, and you choose women who don't appreciate you. Also, some style modifications might be in order, the way you dress, groom yourself, and the way you make conversation. Hope you find someone.

Aww that accent would be enough for me :D just sayin. Don't people usually find things when they stop looking?

Maybe u just haven't met the right one yet, doesn't sound like there's anything wrong with you. And don't worry about how much you have in a material sense. A decent woman will overlook that and be with you more for you, not what you have. Who wants someone who's only into you for what you have anyway? Stay away from people who are superficial and you will meet the right one in the end

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the BEST thing u could do is to stop anticipating a relationship. thats self sabotage right there! as a general rule of thumb, if u are not happy alone, you are not ready to be attached.. if thats the case, u need to work on yourself first. how, u ask?.... well, first, dont even worry about women for now (only as friends) and start doing things for YOU. like working out, spend some time investing in you, which shows you like your self. high self esteem is extremely sexy!!! and girls u happen to meet, dont look at them as a potential gf, but as a person u could talk to as a friend. never be fake!!! even if ur shy/clumsy/etc! a shy guy can be such a cutie, but a fake guy, or worse yet, a guy who tries to use money to get the girl is even more pathetic! big no-no! ms right will literally come knocking at the moment u least expect!

I don't want to sound mean OP but maybe you could be potentially coming across as trying to hard to get yourself a partner. Women can sense the desperation in people quite easily and see it as weak.

Be comfortable about yourself and act naturally as you would with anyone else. Remember if you are looking for a long term relationship your facade will crumble over time.

If you want to lower your standards, just mention how successful you are.

Maybe you're just a prick.

When you interact with women do you feel comfortable or uptight?

Women can always smell desperation you have to talk with them as if its their loss if they dont get to know you pay attention to them if its not going anywhere stop trying turn around and keep it moving never have anyone feel sorry for thats the worst get your self respect back your a man

It is normal because not everyone's brain is wired to have social skills to find a girl also don't be creepy when you are getting to know her.

Most women today care about typical skinheads, big pockets and all that makeup BS, someone who can support them.
Some women just prefer some pimp.
Some prefer complete scumbags.
Few prefer honest men, gentlemen, a man who can be truly called a Man.

The True Definition of a Man: Respect, Honor, Loyalty, Decency, and of course being a gentleman.
If you're not any of those then you're just a Guy, and i can guarantee you - women see "Guys" as just Male human being who have a heat-seeking missile for a dick, by that i mean - You sleep with one tonight, you sleep with another one the next day, and moving on.

Read "No More Mr Nice Guy" by Dr Robert Glover. You'll identify with many of the things in the book. Promise.

i feel like that too at times but am so horny

Look i don't know you, but maybe you come off as a bit of a dick. If you go on about how successful you are, and how great or terrible you think you look you're not going to get anywhere.
Trust me, those are some of the last things i look for in a guy. I mean, sure, those things matter, but they not really as important as you think.
Just stop trying to impress people, be yourself, stop giving a shit about things that don't matter and maybe you'll have some luck.

Maybe you don't have a good personality? Or they don't want a man with kids? Have you looked into single moms?