Is it normal to be in love with your best friend?

I meet a guy when I started collage since I laid eyes on him I wanted to kiss him he's sweet,kind and a good friend I wanted nothing but for him to be in my arms. Though ever since I left collage I felt a lone I'm afraid to tell him because I don't want him to hate me for it

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Comments ( 13 )
  • BlindedByLight

    Thanks everyone who commented I got a date tomorrow

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  • hootiemomma

    You should marry your best friend in the world that you also want to kiss. I did!

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  • S12207

    Why would he hate you for it?

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    • BlindedByLight

      Well the last person I asked out ended up hating me and giving me shit because I was bi I just didn't want that to happen again

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  • Nickvey

    if you could give yourself four words of advice when you were 17 and you are now 60 years old what four words would it be? mine were `= never turn down love. thats right never ever turn anyone down. what makes you think he will turn down your love.? a man would have to be a fool to do that.

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  • Iszzy123

    You have a crush so as ur in the relationship your feeling will change

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  • You could talk to him about your feelings and prepare yourself for a no, in case he doesn't feel the same.

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    If he doesn't already have a girlfriend, I don't see the problem in telling him. If he hates you for it, that's not a friend.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Where is this guy now?

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    • BlindedByLight

      He lives just around the corner off my place a 10mn walk

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      • RoseIsabella

        Well, keep it touch with him. Your post makes it sound like he lives across the country and you haven't seen him since graduation. Surely you still see him if he's your best friend.

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        • BlindedByLight

          Well I talk to him over Facebook or on skype but the majority of our time is spent doing courses and its a long walk home for both of us and when we get home we're to tired to walk again.

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          • RoseIsabella

            Oh, okay.

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