Is it normal to be in love with my best friend, i am gay, he is not.

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I have a best friend, and we met because while everyone else called me gay, he didn't care and sat next to me and talked to me. I am gay, but I haven't come out yet. I think most people know already. I think he knows already. He is so nice to me. Always smiling, making me laugh, touching me in a playful way. I think I love him. He makes me feel so wonderful and special and loved. I know for a fact that he is straight, he has had many girlfriends, but I just want to know is it normal for me to feel like this?

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  • Charlie075
    12 years ago

    It's normal but know that your feelings will not be returned. This could be really painful for you.

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  • SweetSherry
    12 years ago

    Your friend sounds like a gay

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    If you tell him he could reject u as a friend
    Maybe if you should take him to a gay club (dependibg on ur age) and see if he feels comfortable or not to sorta test his sexual orientation
    U might have these feeling for him since he seems to be the only person that is nice to you and accepts you for who you are

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    A very good friend is gay and has, at various times, had feelings for me. I'm not really a typical man and I think that may have meant he thought I was interested. I don't think I ever truly understood how much hurt and confusion it caused him. Just a few words of warning from a straight guy...

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      But I think he knows I'm gay,he has other gay friends. I think he knows I like him, he's also older than I am. I know he's straight because he just is, I can't explain it. I am hoping that he could be bi or pansexual. He just makes me feel so amazing. :/

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  • phuckejiu
    12 years ago

    Lol crazy teens these days

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