Is it normal to be in a serious relationship yet have feelings for someone else

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So I've been in a very serious realationship for about 8 years now, the high school sweetheart story. Up till about a year ago everythings been great. I made a new friend who I find myself falling for more and more everyday. I have no reason to end what I have goin on with my girlfriend nor am I looking for a reason. I just can't stop thinking about the other girl or how I think I really am supose to be with her and how it feels so right. I know the right answer here...I guess I'm really just looking for anyone who's been in the sme situation and how did you handle it?

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  • Sheldon
    13 years ago

    Maybee ur penis got tired of being with the same girl for 8 years nd now it wants some new pussy.

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  • Scaper
    13 years ago

    Few people know this but it's evolutionarilly programmer into us to have sex with as many people as possible, cavemen who did more woman had more children so this urge has stayed with at least many of us. You might as well have a quickie with her and get 1 on 1 with her and see if you like her more than your current gf then choose, or if you're lucky and your gf has a fetish then have a threesome!

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  • strawberryfield
    13 years ago

    It's human nature, we will always have temptations and will always be attracted to many ppl in our lives..BUT it's important to realize that when u have something great in ur life u have to fight ur temptations and be honest with ur partner of so many years. Once u get over this new feeling of urs u will be soo happy u didn't cross that line. My guess is that u will regret this very much if u leave ur gf for a new fling. Don't be stupid!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You've been with your current gf for 8 years.. That says alot. If you were to go with this other girl, what makes you think you can last that long with her? Maybe it will work out, maybe it won't but if it doesn't, your losing alot. That's life I guess huh. It's up to you in the end.

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  • yayasaga
    13 years ago

    OMG that was horrible advice lol no one can give you the right answer unfortunately I would say you have to follow your heart and be as fair andg gentle about it as u possibly can with your gf. Hopefully you make the right choice. If it was me I'd practically consider you cheating already so let her go it's not right.

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  • gowila
    13 years ago

    I had a crush on another girl. It was my wife's mum ohhh we had some hot sex but in the end I went for the younger one. I made the right choice

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