Is it normal to be in a relationship and miss your ex?

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I dated this girl like a year ago. i fell in love with her. we then had some disagreements and broke up. later on we decided to date again. we then eventually ended up breaking up again. the night of the break up she had told her friend that she only loved me as a brother, and always wanted me to be nothing more than a brother figure. I want a relationship with her but she didn't want that, so i felt that i should move on. so i get into another relationship, but still am not over her. i feel like a dick for being with someone and still having feelings for another...

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Sounds like a good time to take a break from dating entirely.

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  • DraegorX
    7 years ago

    You have two different needs at the core of the issue. Sexual needs are being met. Emotional needs are not. You have to decide if you can live with this situation, or if you have to change it.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    7 years ago

    the way i am though, i dont want sex until im married. its just i fell in love with this girl and i cant get over her. i have tried taking breaks from dating but it doesnt help. i havent really felt much love in my life, so i think i find the missing feeling through relationships. all the girls i date end up breaking up with me anyways, so i begin to fall apart and feel unwanted. each relationship i get in now that i have met that ex, just doesnt feel the same as it was with her.

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  • CDmale4fem
    7 years ago

    It's been said that "The best way to get over someone, is to get under someone." But I know how you feel. I was head over heels, over the moon, and every other little cliche' to describe someone that was SO OMG IN LOVE WITH An exgf, I would have married her, or anything else to have kept her in my life. I was screwed up after her, I didn't date for close to 5 yrs after we split. I am a rather loving and caring sort when in a relationship. Breakups are not easy for me. Your not alone by a long shot.

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  • KingTermite
    7 years ago

    A threesome is the only logical solution. Have fun!

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