Is it normal to be heartbroken even if you didn't like the other person much?

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I was seeing a guy for 2 months, he was a lovely guy, but I didn't really like him much. He liked me a lot, and I could tell. I liked the way he treated me. However, I believe he could tell I wasn't into him as much as he was into me, and he suggested that we just be friends. I was heartbroken. Is this normal?

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  • Reaper101
    9 years ago

    Yeah I get it but I'm a bit more violent about the whole thing

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  • DubstepismyMJ
    9 years ago

    What ever you are feeling, it was probably 10x worst for him.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Well, if you weren't as into him as he was into you, can you really blame him? I know it's painful, but it's important that those loving feelings be mutual between two people who are in a romantic relationship. It's awesome that this guy treated/treats you well, but there should be more to a relationship than than that. This guy deserves someone who shares his deep affections.

    Hey, at least now you have a higher standard to which to hold future suitors. Think of it as a measuring stick of sorts.

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    • Crusades_
      9 years ago

      RoseIsabella is everywhere. RoseIsabella is the beginning, and the end. She is life, and death.

      RoseIsabella is IIN.

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago

        Mwahahaha!!! You flatter me, there's nothing like a troll after my heart, but then again what if I'm a stupid girl and your just being facetious.
        :-)
        God, only knows.
        >:-O

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I was relieved, but still heartbroken. It's very strange.

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago

        Sounds like you were more attached to his kindness and good behavior than to him.

        This is why people always make a big deal about finding Mr./Miss. right as they tend not to grow on trees. The stars are not always in that proverbial alignment we always hope for.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    Not normal. You meet people you do shit with them then you move on that's life.

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