Is it normal to be hated so much by someone?

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I am hated very much by a classmate. We went out a couple of times and were good friends but he got upset when I told him I was dating someone and therefore couldn't be in a relationship with him. Afterwards, he seemed to be okay about it but then we were together in a group project and we began having troubles organising and taking decisions. The project ended dreadfully for our relationship because (most people think) I was too demanding and wanted to achieve perfection. After that he started hating me so much, spreading rumors around college, laughing at my projects, mocking me, telling others things I had never said, pushing people away from me and making my life plain miserable at college. There's always a horrible tension created by him and his friends... They look at me as if I were scum, they say everything I say is wrong and just want to bully me in class.
My mother even said she noticed a very negative vibe from him towards me and other people have noticed that too... I'm scared. Everything keeps getting worse and I have tried talking to him but he doesn't want to. I don't know what he's capable of.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    It happens, some people get all booty-hurt, because they can't handle rejection, and then the campaign against the one who rejected them begins. It's probably not anyone's fault, but rather the fault of the fact that he's a psycho. Start reading and leaning about narcissistic, anti-social and borderline personality disorders so you know the signs of a future psycho ex-boyfriend. Also, try not to take dating too lightly and never seek to take advantage of anyone who's really crushing hard on you. If you're gonna hang out with a platonic male friend and you suspect he has the hots for you don't let him pay for everything, but go Dutch instead, or at least if ya'll are out drinking beer pay for every other round.

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  • Algum
    6 years ago

    If he threatens you or harrasses you, you can press charges. He has no business showing any hostility towards you because you said no, which is what every woman has a 100% right to say to someone they're not interested in. He needs to leave you alone and to accept that no means no.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    6 years ago

    just wait someday yall can be like me and be hated so much by everyone

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  • e51pegasi
    6 years ago

    Put your big girl pants on & just get on with it.

    You fell out with an ex. Big fucking deal, who hasn't. They nearly all go mental on you anyway.

    Move school or put up with it.

    What happens at school/college will soon be over. And then you will realise that stuff like that doesn't really matter.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    never date psychos you knew he was off but the women inside you said let him spend money time and energy on you anyway. you couldnt help it , you are a woman. now the women inside you is asking for help, that too is just like a woman. the way i see it you are in a royal mess. But its a mess you made. id let it just play out , yes your dating life got ruined but hey , you can date non college dudes in a college town, they are all over the fucking place.

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