Is it normal to be hated by women and loved by men?

Is it possible to be totally disliked by women and liked and admired by men? Friends ive considered good friends find it quite easy to never forgive me, even if the reason is a petty one. I wonder if they want to hate me. Ive been told by men that im extreamly sexy and good looking even though i have no confidence that way. Im friendly and have tried hard with women to the point where ill act thick just to fit in to their conception of "bimbo" or whatever, because i know they feel more comfortable with this. I feel pissed off that im judged by my looks as my persona of myself is quite different

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  • Piconano

    Ugh. Great. Come on, don't tell me that every single woman in your life is like that. Even I went through that, but I found girl friends who were "not bimbo". Even though they are nerds/geeks, they are still good people.

    I'm sorry for suspecting your story as fake. I've simply read one too many of these stories already. And you've been told by men that you are "extremely sexy" and "good looking". How much more praise do you want? Some women would die happy just to get a "you're pretty" from a guy.

    Be grateful, maintain self-respect, and don't become who you are not.

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    • heather9h

      Thanks for your comments, It was a short insight into the situation I know as this was my first posting. But of course theres alot more to it than that. I should mention that im no whippa snapper, im forty two and still today receive the bitch treatment. I obviously dont get as upset anymore as I can let things go over my head alot more now, but its more of the little problems it brings with. Like being the last one to get served at the bar because the pretty barmaid got her hangups and bloody stupid husbands smiling at me unaware their wife is giving me daggers. One more problem is (to change the subject) my husband is a real flirt which ive learned to live with, but the thing that gets me is the looks of satisfaction in my direction off the often plain looking girls he,s chatting to. Sigh......

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  • I'm the same way... Men like me and call me beautiful, and women hate me for it. Don't lose hope. You'll find people that will love you no matter how you look.

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  • ladymantoloveyoulongtime

    its normal for girls to be like that in school. theres only a handfull of chicks at that age that dont judge and arent jealous of other girls. but by the way you have described yourself and your situation that good friends find it hard to forgive you? well it makes me wonder what you have done to make people dislike you. and guys at that age dont care what you do because all they want to do is get in your panties.

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  • Golden

    I'm not sure if this helps, but throughout the years, the more grown I became the more I noticed how hateful other girls can be. I'm not trying to say all girls are haters but many can be. Some girls love to just pick one another apart mentally or outwardly just because they are jealous or malicious, I really don't know. I too, don't think I'm much with looks but I remember going to a party w/ my boyfriend at the time, the guys there were super nice but later on my bf was bragging that a lot of the girls there (they were his friends) were telling him later "oh your girl is so cute, she has the perfect little shape and such pretty skin...I hate her guts" They said other things about me that they liked that also ended with "I hate her" These girls were kind of giving me the squinty eyed look all night but they were hospitable. The fact that they kept saying they hate me, horrified me. My boyfriend was proud saying, "ha ha those girls were pissed because you're cuter than them" but like I stated before, I was upset. I don't want people to hate me; especially over looks, that's so lame. Besides, those girls were hot. They were pretty and sexy, with flawless make-up, they had nothing about me to hate when they were so beautiful. I laughed it off later on though when I was watching Katt Williams and he said: "Ladies, if you've got 14 women hating on you, you need to figure out how to get to 16 before the summer get here!" Don't try to fit in by down playing yourself. If people are going to hate let them, you must be much more fabulous than you give yourself credit for! :)

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    • 53739

      Wonderful comment...2 thumbs up!

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  • DannyKanes

    Just be yourself :-) Screw what anyone else thinks

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