Is it normal to be good looking but to have never been in any relationship?

I've been told a lot that I am an attractive male, even I think I'm reasonably handsome. However something must be wrong because I've never been in a committed relationship with any woman. Some people are dealt the cards of a solitary life and I fear I've been chosen.
It's hard for me to deeply connect with anyone anymore, nevermind a potential girlfriend. At this point in my life I no longer have any really close friends that I'm completely comfortable with, and everyone needs a besty. I try to be cool around girls but they just sense it when it's not coming naturally I guess. Apparently there's more to it than just having good looks.
IS this normal to be sexy but lonely?

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Comments ( 21 )
  • Inspector019

    Try being as into to a girl as you are yourself. It helps. Lol

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  • danh34me

    hey dude start stuffing your drawers, you know make your bulge bigger. Women in general are clearly the most vain creatures on earth, just look how many women either have or want fake tits.Look when I was growing up and all thru school my best friend and I were inseparable, we were the same height same build, and looked enough alike that everyone thought we were brothers. He was an asshole and so was I,we both acted like snotty jocks.Basically the only difference was he had a hugh package and I didnt. Guess who always had the girl? Hint hint, it wasnt me.Women are a bunch of cock monsters even thought most couldnt take everything he had(according to him, he used to complain that he couldnt put it all the way in.)When we were old enough to start going to the bars I would sit back sometimes and watch the women look directly at his dick and then approuch him. Thats just the way it is, big dick,lots of chicks.

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  • Mel

    I think youre completely missing the point. Being attractive has nothing to do with the ability to obtain & hold a meaningful relationship with someone. In fact, with the way youre seeing the situation...it might be whats holding you back from what you want.

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  • 41ph4m413

    Being beta isn't all about looks. It's a mindset too

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  • YumInsanity

    thats stupid, all girls want is a good looking robot to show off to their girlfriends to make them jealous and make them feel better about themselves, people were definitely lying to you when they said you were good looking

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    • Oliwan

      Yep some are definetely like that. Dudes are too.

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  • Chillpill

    Don't rely on your looks alone to get people interested in you. It's also about the way you engage with people. Others like to be noticed and appreciated, too. So make a bit more effort to connect with people on a general, human level. Show a bit more interest in how they are, what they're up to and find things you have in common (even insignificant stuff). Make sure you maintain good eye contact and find out more about body language. As other said, you need to learn to be yourself and comfortable around people.

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  • We're in the same boat, except I chose to be on it. To Hell with relationships.

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  • piman

    Sounds like me! People say I'm very handsome (and I do have decent abs too) but ive never had a real gorlfriend

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    • flutterhigh

      I've only had one gorlfriend. She was a really great gorl though, best gorler in all of Gorlingshire!

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  • joybird

    You said that you try to be cool around girls, so ... you're trying too hard and they know it. Women don't want to waste their time with someone who's not genuine. If you can't honestly be yourself at the start of a relationship, what are you going to be like when you get bored with them? You're going to lie, lie, lie - and we know it.

    BTW most women don't like vain men! You should never make too much of an effort or be caught looking at your own reflection. We don't like men who take longer to get ready, than us.

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    • Oliwan

      I guess I've come across as vain, but hey honestly I'm not that kind of guy, I just know it and i ve been told it a lot. Really though I've been trying to find myself this past while so I don't even know me...so fuck me I'm fairly new to this site and I figured I should post something and express my thoughts a little, see what you people think. Thank you!

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    • What mythical land do you live in where women do not like vain men?

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      • joybird

        We like handsome men yes, but not vain ones. They are just sooooo boring!!

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        • You like boring men. You are too simple-minded to handle genuine human beings; you just want apes.

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          • joybird

            Simple-minded?! Me?
            Your posts are such nonsense I think you don't know the meaning of the word 'vain' or else you're on drugs replying to someone else!! You are an ape!!

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            • I'm sorry, I just get so worked up when women attempt to give a coherent description of what they look for in a man, because I know from experience that all they want is some stupid hairy asshole who's goals, attitudes, beliefs, morals, dress, and speech are the same as every other stupid hairy asshole out there. It was wrong of me to take out my embitterment on you.

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  • iBeatMyWife

    Sexy & lonely

    Lol join the club

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  • KatieLiz

    Yes unfortunately, so confusing

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