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so basically, im lesbian and virgin to straight sex. and this guy friend of mine who is good looking was talking about how he would do sex related things with me. ever since then, i have been really curious. because i have never had sex with a man before....is this normal? like i am pretty sure im lesbian so....
I didn't know you ranked lesbianism?! What did you have to do to get to gold star?!
uh....gold star lesbian means that you have never had sex with a man. so its not so much what you do more than what you dont do. and no, there is no ranking system xD
I am also curious about the lesbian ranking system please enlighten us about this gold star thing
Het a girl with a strapon & let her bang you & then bang your friend that's a dude up the butt with it
ok. i did it with him. NEVER AGAIN EVER EVER EVER EVER AGAIN! ugh....it was terrible and it hurt so bad that i almost blacked out. now i know for SURE that im gay. not a hint of questioning left after that..xD but i thanked him for helping me figure it out and stuff
DefinitelyNotNormal89: ok its not a rank, gold star lesbian means that you are a lesbian that has never had straight sex...
oscard: i have no desire at all to start a relationship with this person. I am just curious about straight sex because i havent experienced it before. and frankly, the only reason i would choose him over anybody else is because he has good hygene and he wants to do me xD im interested in the concept, not him.
Thanks for the enlightenment. It's something I need to know for a story series I've been writing!
I think it's an interesting curiosity, but given the fluidity of Female sexuality that's made many women many shades between straight and bi, I suppose there's just as many shades between bi and lesbian. I have heard of "bisexual lesbians" before, and with all the lesbians who have been in lavender marriages with men before, I'm sure some of them had at least some curiosity in men.
Ahhhh I understand, my best mate is a "gold star lesbian" but the thought of men actually makes her feel sick but obviously you don't feel this way. Why don't you give it a go? You only live once and if you're curious you might as well, no harm done! Just don't go for a twat like toys4us...
If you catch yourself being a hypochondriac then it's completely normal. Sometimes it's driven by the fear of being straight itself.
I mean, the thing is, hetero sex does genuinely feel good; there's no denying it. Just because you can tolerate the opposite gender's body and would enjoy the feeling of straight sex does not mean you're at all straight.
Maybe you are fooling yourself branding yourself as a lesbian. Maybe what you will find is that you are not a lesbian, you just seek someone who you can care about, and them you. Feeling don't lie. You are obviously interested give him a chance.
Go for it got a big cock up your tight little pussy sound like therapy if not for you then for him. I would pay you hard cash for the privilege. I'm a good looking gut trim 5.11 and my cocks 8" dose that sound okay
I'm curious if we are lesbian/ bi as well... what doyou guys think? Similar situation. http://isitnormal.com/story/iin-that-two-girl-bffs-like-to-make-each-other-horny-and-make-out-146418/?n=y
bored guy: i was a virgin to penises, fake and real. so all i had before that were fingers of previous hookups with girls...so it hurt like a bitch
Even if you are straight-out lesbian, it's normal to wonder.
After all, you've never experienced it, and while you could, ah... re-create the feeling, it's not the same as the real thing.
What's with he labels? "Gold Star", "Lesbian"...I say this meaning...is it important for you to label your sexuality and keep these labels? If so, don't do it. Otherwise, who cares? It's just sex, so do it and if you like it, then do it again. Or don't. lol. And if you dont' like it, then now you know...but can't call yourself "Gold Star" anymore. :)
doesn't sound to me like you're pretty sure about anything. hope you figure it out soon, for your own sake.
I WISH! Haha, I don't think this is normal. I think most lesbians are not attracted to penises or the male form in general, and therefore do not fantasizing about being with men. I mean, I'm a straight guy and I don't fantasize about being with guys, because I really really really like boobs and pussy, and the only cock I like is my own lol.
You could be a little bi curious. Nothing wrong with that. ESPECIALLY since you will probably be fulfilling your guy friends fantasy of boning a lesbian after she knows she is one (no guy wants to bone a chick and then find out later that she's gay, even though he probably had absolutely nothing to do with her orientation, he will feel it.) If you're attracted to it and digging it, then LET HIM KNOW. He will feel awesome and I will live vicariously through him lol since this will probably never come up for me
Won't hurt to try. At least if you try it you will know whether you like it or not. That's like straight women being curious about females. I personally think its along the same lines. Just make sure this guy is the one that you truly want to experiment with out regret.