Is it normal to be gay and not attracted to the male body?

I have considered myself gay for some time now, but have had a lot of confusion over the years on what I'm attracted to. I have come to the conclusion that I am attracted to dicks and being a bottom, but I don't find much attraction to the actual body of a male. On top of the title question, I would also like to ask if you would consider me gay and, if not, what sexuality would you put me as? Thanks to any and all answers.

TL;DR Am I gay for liking dicks why or why not?

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  • Derickcummings88

    You might just like the prostate stimulation and the stretch of your ass but have you ever had a girl use a strap on its any size u want that day. And I am straight male I have same problem just different side I’m into pussy but want that feeling but I have thought of men well tried to but it’s just that stretch I needed not a mast man body. Do u think women at sexy? Body wise ? And would u be ok with pussy as long as she filled your hole to? I’m in limbo also I know I hate male bodies I’ve never taken real cock so not sure on that side but I love pussy And girls body and if she’s willing to strap one on to help me thank god. But sttill as u my friend not sure if it’s considered gay to take dildos in ass.?

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    • Hodrick

      I honestly don't think women are attractive either. Every now and than, I will feel attracted to a women, but not too often. To be fair, I'm quite young (19) and have had trouble in my dating life (go figure), but when I watch porn I most often find men with feminine traits attractive. Also imagining myself in the bottom position is the biggest turn on for me.

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  • TimeWizard

    Maybe you just have a dick fetish.

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  • ONEDOESNOTSIMPLY

    If u arent attracted to the male body then you are not gay you dumb shit

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    • Hodrick

      Well, I'm sorry I offended you. Just asking harmless questions to strangers.

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  • Everette

    You might be bi try it out

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  • Clappingpapperclips

    I’m just like you, I swear I’m just like you. I love dicks and fantasize about them all the time and about getting fucked by dicks and sucking on them and getting cummed on but I don’t find men attractive at all

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  • u gay

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  • snoopmoth

    You'll figure it out on your own in time, no one can tell you. Don't overthink it. Date and have sex with whoever you want to. If you find yourself having sex only with men for quite a while you might think "huh, I guess I'll call myself gay." If it changes, no biggie.

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  • Liking dick and wanting to be fucked doesn't necessarily make you gay, but not being that into the male body doesn't necessarily mean you're not. It's entirely possible that you just want a dick in your ass and you don't care about the body it's attached to. There's nothing wrong with that. Some guys just kind of become their asshole when it's that time and that's what it's all about for them. Or maybe you're more attracted to trans women? Have you checked out (I hate this term with a passion) 'she male' porn? There are some really beautiful women who also happen to have cocks...

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    • Hodrick

      Yes, I have and it's ok. Not my goto thing. Really I think the best way for me to figure it out is to actually start dating (which I have). At this point, the worst that'll happen is I found out I wasn't what I thought I was and at best I find someone I like to be with. Thanks to everybody for commenting, It's been really helpful.

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  • Smithers

    Get a dick tattoo you h0m0

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    • Hodrick

      Sure thing. I'll make it rainbow colored.

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  • _Mehhhh_

    In the age where everyone seems to have super-nuanced unicorn faerie sexualities and gender identities, I wouldn't know what to call you.

    You sound like a straight guy who's just curious about anal play tbh... or you're just very confused.

    Anyways I'm gay and love mens' bodies, the arms, the chest, and a guy with a good ass and thighs (squats for life). Nice fashionable fitted clothes on a good body is almost as hot as a naked one. Bonus points if you're hairy and have nice facial hair too (God I love hairy men).

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    • Hodrick

      Well, you're not wrong, I'm pretty confused about it myself. Maybe I'll grow out of my weirdness in time or something. I haven't dated much so I have a fairly limited horizon.

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  • radar

    Am I like the only one ever who thinks the male body is fucking hot and beautiful and amazing?

    I mean there are straight chicks that think penises are gross. Wtf is wrong with life. How horrible must that be to be a man with a partner who thinks your body is weird looking?

    I'm starting to sound like our dear old friend ItDuz here, but male beauty is not acknowledged or appreciated enough.

    Crime against humanity.

    /end rant.

    But yeah you sound maybe bi, maybe gay, maybe just questioning. You'll figure it out sooner or later, but not because some people on the internet told you.

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  • lonewolf1253

    You don't mention anything about girls so I would guess you are gay.

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  • MiloBoy

    Idk man I'm straight........ Maybe try fucking some girls, you may be a bisexual

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  • rayb12

    Yeah many straight females feel the same way. I'm a straight male but can understand the intrigue in a dick much more than anything else about the male body.

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  • MysticLane

    im a straight female and i feel sort of the same. dicks are great. mens bodies dont do too much for me most of the time. like if a guy takes his shirt off its kind of watever for me. certain things about a males body can turn me on like a hot face, or chest hair peaking out. is there anything that turns you on besides a penis?

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    • Hodrick

      Not really. I could see being taller than me being attractive, but otherwise not much else about the masculine form attracts me.

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    You're gay for liking dicks. I'm not giving you an explanation on why, you just are. How would you be able to even explain that? If you're gay, then you're gay.

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    • Hodrick

      Fair enough. That part of the question seems a bit arbitrary now that I think about it.

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