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(No hate on people who enjoy it.) is it normal to hate the idea of head? I dont know why, i just feel like the spit will get in my donghole and it just makes me nervous.
I'm a bisexual female and I think giving oral on dicks and pussies is gross. Dick smells like parmesan cheese and piss. Pussy smells like yeast, earthy dirt, and piss. I'm starting to wonder if people actually wash themselves correctly or not. People have told me that's a natural smell that never comes off. If it is, I'll just keep on skipping the foreplay and go straight to the good part. XD
I don’t think giving head because I don’t think guys wash their dicks properly and piss comes out of there. It’s normal to not like it and think it’s gross.
Sorry to say it, but it can be that they mistook you for an urinal, hun..
This reminds me of a story I once heard - maybe an urban myth, but very possibly true - about a guy realising that the woman who was going down on him was actually blowing into his dick like she was trying to inflate a balloon. There's also a story on Reddit where a guy confesses that when he was twelve, he used a straw to blow into his urethra, inflated his bladder and very quickly desperately needed to piss. When he got to the toilet, he experienced a dick-fart.
In any case, as long as the person giving the (obviously, for some, confusingly named) blowjob knows what they're doing and isn't trying to inflate your bladder, there's zero chance that any significant amount of saliva will get into your urethra. Even if some does, it won't get any further than the very end. When the penis is erect, the tubes that fill with blood on either side compress the urethra that runs between them. This is why many - maybe most - guys find it very difficult to piss when they have a solid erection.
Your concern isn't entirely irrational, though. It isn't a great idea to introduce the random bacteria that will be in another person's mouth and those that will be on the exterior of your penis into your bladder. Men tend not to get bladder infections because our urethra is long and any bacteria that get into the external end tend to be regularly washed away when we urinate. Women need to be more careful about their genital hygiene because their urethra is relatively short, and it's not too difficult for bacteria to make their way up it to the bladder.
Yeah, it sounds hilarious, doesn't it? 😁
I forgot to mention that he said that the fact there was indeed some urine in his inflated bladder meant that when he got to the toilet and released his sphincter, his dick basically did an imitation of a spray can, only with piss.
Unless he sticks his tongue in your urethra or something then no substantial amount of spit is gonna end up inside your dick, and even if some did then it'll probably be expelled on orgasm.
I don't think this is an uncommon thought to have though so I still voted normal
You like what you like, and that’s it. Be open, though, to trying it in the future. You might like it.
I've always found the idea of oral sex to be incredibly gross (then again, I am asexual and have always been repulsed by sex in general). It's just... why would I want someone's privates in my mouth, and why would I want their mouth on my privates?
Even French kissing has always been gross to me, because... why would I want someone's tongue in my mouth? What if they have disgusting breath?