Is it normal to be bi if you can’t actually have sex with men ??

Hiya,

I’m a wheelchair user and can hardly move so sex would be impossible. I love really tough men but every so often, I fall for a woman, and usually it’s someone older who I’ve got no chance of being with –- just like with most men I fall for actually !

I have experimented, enjoyed about half of it, and wouldn’t mind doing so again if I could (I can’t, I no longer see who it was with)

There’s this one song that this woman sings from a man’s POV & it really sets me off. I don’t want to say anything, because I said I thought I was a lesbian or at least Bi once and have never heard the end of it (in a teasing way).

A lot of my friends are and have been male – do you think I could have just wanted to be an honorary man or something ??

As the tree said to the lumberjack, I’m stumped!
Any ideas??