Is it normal to be attracted to strong women

Let me clarify. By strong, I mean physically and mentally. I can't stand prissy girls, which I view as being bland and uninteresting. Don't get me wrong, no hating here, but maybe I've just had too much vanilla. My previous four girlfriends have been adamant lesbians... until they started dating me, of course. I'm not a submissive, but I'm not controlling either. Strong but neutral. I don't tolerate "pants" in a relationship. I only commit to relationships where everything is in balance and we think alike, a tag team basically. This also follows me into the bedroom, as I like to give it to her just as much as I like for her to put on a strap-on and fuck me. To note, I don't identify with male or female myself, but live as a man because it's the path of least resistance (being biologically male).

Is this normal/common or is my love life in a league of it's own?

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  • OtherSide

    I agree. I've always been attracted to strong women. Oprah, Michelle Obama, Venus Williams, Beyonce...

    Hang on a minute...

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    • Walterbasherdinger

      Hahahahahaha!!!! I've dated a black woman before and she was awesome. It gave me a lot of insight into the black community and she was tough as nails. We started off as co-workers and I saw her get nailed right on the shin by an 80 lb tractor part (shipping industry, loading trailers). She just froze up for a few moments and then kept going like nothing happened. Now that's a woman.

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  • RainbowFlash

    Perhaps you just like an equal and find yourself to have a spine, so ergo.. you like your partners to have a spine as well.

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    • Walterbasherdinger

      I don't think I could have put it better myself.

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  • thegypsysailor

    OMG, you "cure" lesbians? What a great service you perform for every male. Every beautiful lesbian can fall at your feet and fawn over your manhood, seeking a cure for their deviance. When you are done with them, do you toss them to the curb like a used tampax, so other men can scrape them up and take them home, secure in the knowledge that their "gayness" is cured?
    Oh how wonderful you are.

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    • Walterbasherdinger

      I've had words put into my mouth, but never an entire paragraph. I actually do the opposite, I sincerely love my partner for who they are. And when I say 4 girlfriends, I'm not some sort of playboy. That was over the span of like eight years or so. I have -no- idea where you're getting any of these bad vibes from, so you're either A) An inexperienced troll, or B) A stereotype.

      Hopefully you can find a 'cure' for all that anger built up inside of you. And thanks for not contributing anything at all to the conversation besides an ill-conceived rant.

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  • magic7

    I had an inherent desire to vacillate towards dominant women. Being attracted to women that were willing to experiment with kink I've found it a lot more sexually exciting. I'm especially attracted to women five years and older because they were more sexually mature knowing all the variations of being sexually satisfied. After my first girlfriend and I let each other go having experimented with oral sex especially 69, intercourse both vaginal and anal, both of us were willing to move on to other lovers. At age 27 I was no longer willing to be with a woman that enjoyed an occasional suck and fuck. I looked for a take charge woman that was going to either order of force me to do sexual things I never dreamed up before. It didn't take long for me to find women that were into female domination taking charge of their own sexual pleasures using me as their suck and fuck slave. I had one woman who admitted that my abilities to orally please her was disgusting immediately giving me lessons for several months on how to please her with my mouth. I spent all of my time under the sheets eating her pussy according to her strict instructions until I was always able to give her an oral orgasm according to her personal measures. She was skilled at sucking cock but only rewarded me once I gave her several orgasms myself. I was quite upset when this lady told me she wanted to leave for another well endowed guy so for a goodbye gift she sucked my cock rolled me over and spanked my ass as hard as she could then walked out the door. I found another woman a 6ft tall German Lady that was 29 that wasn't afraid to try or do anything. Using her ability to suck and swallow she used oral entrapment and I became a slave. I also confessed to my Amazon girlfriend that I had been spanked and it was quite sexually arousing. After my first blowjob she invited me up to her bedroom with me thinking I was going to get to fuck her finally. Instead she stayed fully clothed stripped me naked and took me over her lap whipping my ass with my own folded up belt until I cried. She came from a family where discipline was often harsh and she was happy to find a boyfriend willing to bend over and take the medicine. A good strapping was a normal weekly occurrence with that girlfriend. Yet her cock sucking became even more intense bringing me under submission. Fortunately the last Lady trained me how to eat pussy and my girlfriend definitely enjoyed the thrill of having her own, what she called her personal "male lesbian". I never had a woman suck my cock that well taking my come in your mouth like it was nothing. One day on the beach she gave me a blowjob and insisted on giving me a French kiss forcing me to swallow the entire load. From then on my mouth became her come container. When the idea of fucking a guy with a dildo appeared in a popular movie during the 80s when strap on fucking was still quite taboo we purchased the movie at an adult store and my girlfriend desired her own dildo. I was quite good at leatherworking so I fashioned my own harness and we started looking for a dildo. I found a trainer dildo at an adult store with a cheap plastic harness and we decided to purchase it so she could finally take my virginity. The dildo was a perfect size 6 inches long and about an inch and a eighth in diameter totally smooth so It could slip inside my virgin ass quite easily. Behind closed bedroom doors my Amazon girlfriend not taking no for an answer bent me over the bed fucking me on all fours until I shot my wad and continued fucking me again just for the enjoyment. From that first fucking her desires for taking my ass lustfully grew and out of a catalog we quickly ordered the perfect lifelike silicone 8 inch dildo that easily bent to the shapes of my anus. The tables quickly turned and strap on sex became my only means of relief and perhaps an occasional blowjob because she still enjoyed feeding me come. Most of the time if she was interested in a long session she would bind me to the bedpost with nylons so I couldn't escape whip my ass and then fuck me with her brand-new dildo until she was satisfied. Giving up on the thin 1 inch wide strap because it caused too much damage so soon she told me to go out and buy her a razor strap. We had read that the razor strop can be used for multiple flailings into the hundreds without causing the skin to break causing deep bruising making the muscles hurt for several days afterwards. I even purchased a straight razor because she wanted to shave my ass before giving me my first razor strapping. I have total faith in my girlfriend as she tied me to the headboard rubbing shaving cream all over my buttocks. Carefully with a straight razor she shaved every last hair off of the cheeks of my ass making the nerve endings quite vulnerable for the strap. Standing on the left-hand side of the bed having already propped me up under pillows putting me in quite a vulnerable position she started the strapping. Immediately the pain emanated from my ass all the way to my brain giving me a regrets I ever bought the strap. Wanting to prove that what we read on the Internet was correct my girlfriend proceeded to blister my ass with at least 200 blows. All I could do was cry out wiggling my ass desperately trying to avoid the blows. Leaving me in tears she finally turned me loose and invited me to eat her pussy. Needless to say the razor strap was her adopted way to give me a good ass blistering whenever she found an excuse. As soon as my girlfriend adopted the strap on she started whipping first and fucking my ass afterwards into her repertoire. As usual these type of women get bored and want to move on so she dumped me out.
    I actually started finding massage therapists that were quite dominant and more than willing to either spank or fuck me with a strap on. I called one lady having an open conversation with her about female domination and punishment and she came out quite aggressively and told me that I should forget the massage and she would come over and beat the hell out of me instead just for the price of the massage. This beautiful 19-year-old chick showed up at my door carrting two riding crops wearing black leather clothes, black combat boots, and a black leather hat ready to play. She only had a half hour but within that time using her crops she did literally beat the hell out of me leaving marks all over my body that took weeks to go away. Another young lady after talking on the phone said the same thing telling me to forget about the massage because she wanted to fuck my ass instead. She was a beautiful young African-American lady and definitely rhythmic especially when she strapped it on fucking me like no other person that fucked me before for a good 30 minutes. I called another massage therapist and within the hour I was at her studio getting fucked in the ass with a strap on and we became immediately friends for a good seven years. We both rode horses and when she found out that I enjoyed an occasional whipping she got out her 4 foot long dressage whip she give me a taste of what it was like to get whipped by that definitely putting the fear of God into me. Being a Rastafarian she refused oral sex or giving me a suck but preferred making me her slave whipping me into shape. Both of us were always completely naked and I became her house boy/cook always in the nude. Even though I was her boyfriend she still forced me to pay for play even when it came to getting a whipping. My favorite fuck was when she laid me sideways over massage table fucking my ass for the entire hour until she had an orgasm by pressing her clitoris against the back of the dildo. For enjoyment we often spend many afternoons at the nude beach so she could show me off as her boyfriend and the other guys would leave her alone. Often when I stripped down my body showed the telltale signs of her whip which I wore quite proudly. My girlfriend told me that the other girls at the beach often got jealous knowing that she had a boyfriend that was willing to submit. At the same time I also had a lady friend that was a professional dominatrix and we were working on getting into the video business. I did three ways sessions with her and her husband who had a huge 9 inch cock that was pierced into places. One was on the underside at the middle of his cock and the other was a Prince Albert through his urethra sporting a huge gold ring. This lady loved using floggers and riding crops sometimes flogging me for a half an hour at a time rhythmically bringing herself into a trance. Able to do whatever she wished behind her husband's back I often ate her pussy because she loved my tongue. For my 45th birthday this beautiful lady chained me from the ceiling with spreader bars between my ankles and with my own riding crop give me an intense whipping with 45 licks as hard as she could. Her husband watched enjoying every moment of it. I never saw them fuck because she preferred women allowing him to fuck other women whenever she gave her permission. I actually had a crush on both of them and if she had asked I would have sucked her husbands cock at the drop of a pin. The three of us got to know each other quite well spending a lot of time inside a session being dominated by the beautiful blonde. We always included strap on play and I was usually the one that got fucked in the ass especially if we were filming. Like my other girlfriend my dominatrix friend could come just by fucking my ass.
    Enjoying sessions outdoors my dominatrix friend and I went to some private places at the beach and had her own sessions together. Hearing about my times at the beach and getting a caning right out in the open she was interested in doing the same thing. California has the perfect cane growing right there on the beach for discipline. It is a lot thinner than the English cane but more resilient and the dominant can inflict a longer-lasting painful whipping with many blows. She liked the idea of going to the beach walking over to the cane cutting switches for discipline. She watch me select the canes then strip off the outside leaves and bark and I handed her two perfect four foot-long switches. She retrieved some rope tied me to a tree consecrated the area to the goddess and begin the ritual whipping. I was caned from my neck all the way to my ankles until my backside was lined with thin red welts. She finally let me loose bent me over our blanket and fucked my ass with a dildo whipping my back with a flogger. Fucking me until she orgasmed she stripped off the dildo straddled my body and gave me a golden shower. Before allowing me to get up she pulled my face into her crotch and invited me to give her a hot lick to orgasm. We felt so dirty and nasty we walked stark naked 100 feet to the ocean and jumped in. Another couple seeing us naked got so excited removed their suits and jumped in with us frolicking in the water. I was sure that they either heard me getting whipped but now it was obvious they could see my body stepped with welts as I cooled myself off in the waves.
    My Amazon girlfriend did the same thing to me in a river bed as we lay naked in the sand waiting for me to get nice and pink she then told me to select the switch. I cut her the switch and immediately she had me lay in the sand and started from the top of my shoulders all the way down to my ankles leaving red welts lattering up and down my body. After the whipping We decided to go home and I carefully slipped on my suit and she tied her bikini on as well and we walked hand-in-hand back to the car as many beachgoers especially the women gasped when they saw that I had been whipped. I actually carried two more canes back home with me because they would come in handy for another session. My girlfriend was kind of quiet in the car and eager to get home because she told me that she had something planned. As soon as we got home she pulled down my suit forcing me to step out of it invited me over the bed over pillows butt up and tied my wrists to the headboard. Retrieving her trusty rasor strop she knew from experience that getting a strapping over welts would be quite painful but effective. The 2 foot long 3 inch wide strap made with 1/8th inch horsehide was the most effective disciplinarian tool she had. Truthfully my stomach was sickened knowing I was about to get another whipping. I was taught not to beg but this time I was asking her to go easy. I even politely asked her why I was getting another beating? Ignoring me she slapped the strap over and over again across my sore ass making me cry out after every blow. Leaving me quite shaken she went into the kitchen and made her self something to eat. After about 30 minutes she returned remove her clothes strapped on her dildo and fucked my ass.
    I even met a Russian lady that was running a dating agency and invited her over to play as well. It wasn't hard for her to talk me out of my clothes and let her play with the selection of my whips and paddles on my bare ass. Eying my erection she used the riding crop to slap my cock and balls until I went limp. She left several hours later satisfied that she had given me a good run for the money.

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  • shuggy-chan

    Maybe they are magnetic

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  • howaminotmyself

    I don't think it's anything to worry about. There are all sorts of couples out there.

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  • la_uva_mojada

    something about you seems off

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    • Walterbasherdinger

      Really?

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      • la_uva_mojada

        maybe bi-curious? or maybe you have been abused? or something else

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