Is it normal to be annoyed with my future mother in law when i haven't met her

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My boyfriend and I are definitely solid and basically engaged without the ring if you get me.

So I know I'll definitely be with him and that his family will become mine but I don't like his Mother. I haven't yet met her personally because I'm in America and his family live in England but I see photos of her facebook/hear about her outings.

She wears lowcut outfits for her age of 60 that expose loads of cleavage, she lets her 11 year old daughter watch 18+ rated films/TV shows with lots of profanity/nudity. She'll watch Skins, American Horror Story, Misfits, Girls, Game of Thrones and yes, even Masters of Sex. I actually remember seeing a post on her wall about how great masters of sex is and I was shocked because she is just a little kid.

His Mother also dates one guy to the next and doesn't stop. She is out at bars until 3am on a school night. Because she's so relaxed, she even let her 11 year old roam london streets for several hours with her other 11 year old friend and they live an hour outside of london so it's not like they live there. On top of that, I've seen photos where her daughter is chugging a bottle of alcohol with his mother right next to her. His sister says she wants to be a pole dancer on her facebook page in her most recent post. Here, I'll copy and paste what she wrote, "Some day im going to be a bloody polldancer and make f^ckloads of quid and youll be jelous"

is it normal for me to feel so much hatred towards someone because of all of these things without even having met her physically yet or am I overreacting? I just feel like she's immature and not being a parent properly and that pisses me the hell off.

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago

    I also think you are the immature one here.
    Above all you seem stuck up and boring.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I think you are the immature one here, honey.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Okay first off, don't call me honey, that's patronizing. Two, no one has ever used the word immature to describe me in my entire life so to use that word makes absolutely no sense. You come off as some older guy who is immature himself and with a Master's in psychology under my belt, I bet I'm right.

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        OK, you know it ALL, I get that. So, with your master's in psychology, what the fuck are you doing asking questions of us know nothings, honey?
        I can only judge you by your post and it comes off as an immature little girl judging someone by second hand knowledge. What would your profs say about that, honey?

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