Is it normal to be almost 30 and in love with a 12 year old girl?

By love I don't mean in a sexual way just I find her extremely beautiful and cute. She doesn't wear any makeup and yet she is totally naturally pretty. I am working in a middle school (not as a teacher) and I've been in two of her classes and she asks me questions all the time like she is curious about me too. Sometimes she asks me stupid questions that I know she knows the answers to but maybe she just wants to hear me say them. She is a smart girl that's why I think she is just acting dumb around me sometimes. I have occasionally daydreamed about waking up next to her in the morning in bed (again not in a sexual way just in a protective / nurturing kind of way). I have also daydreamed about watching old movies with her.

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Comments ( 8 )
  • AntiArchon

    emotional pedo?

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  • Eagwol

    Not in a sexual way? How you explain it seems like you wish of dating her. And naturally beautiful? Wtf is this shit? You shouldn't even be thinking of that kind of stuff about a little girl. Think about women your own age that can look naturally beautiful, and think about sleeping in the same bed with a woman that you would feel like protecting. A teacher or not, I think women are better as teachers and workers, least then it isn't the student who gets pregnant. Guys should never work in a school. Parents shouldn't have to worry about pervert guys that works in a school dreaming about their kids.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Oh my God, you're disgusting. What are you, the janitor?

    *vomits*

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    • Really now? Of course it's odd, but I've seen much, much worse.

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  • Anongirl26

    Not sure if creepy pedo or man that just wants to a child of his own..
    Either way this is odd

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  • Indigobloom1

    You may or may not be a paedo. You need to discuss in more detail to come to a final conclusion. But it doesn't seem normal, even if you don't have sexual intentions. It would be best if you block those thoughts out your head. Its disturbing and raises concern

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  • Fluteplayer101

    This isn’t normal and it is not ok. As long as you don’t pursue her I’d say keep the thoughts to yourself.

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  • CDmale4fem

    To even mention that on here, you are setting yourself up to have people following you, asking your neighbors about you, and just a whole lot of concerned people worried in the town or where you live. You might have heard this before - but DON'T EVEN GET CLOSE ENOUGH TO HER TO FEEL THE AIR MOVE AS SHE RUNS ON THE PLAYGROUND. PEOPLE LIKE YOU HAVE BEEN KNOWN TO BE SHOT BY A PISSED DADDY, OR IF YOU GO TO PRISON- YOU WILL BE SOMEBODIES LITTLE GIRL BITCH. STOP AND THINK REALISTIC ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE THINKING, SAYING, AND PROBABLY PLANNING.

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