Is it normal to be a 25 year old virgin female?

I just turned 25... and I'm still a virgin? It's not because I'm religious and want to wait until I'm married, and I'm not butt-ugly (I'm actually pretty athletic and I've had boyfriends throughout the years). But I still haven't had sex.

It's not that I don't want to...

I would like to take into consideration that when I was young, I was sexually touched by an old creepy "father figure" and am not sure if it scarred the crap out of me or not. I don't think about it much, and back then I was just confused.

I'm kind of uncomfortable with my vagina? I find them all unattractive, particularly mine. I've used dildos... never really got any huge pleasure out of them, and I shave regularly, though I don't know how shaved is too shaved.

Would love to know if it's normal... or what's wrong with me?

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  • ManInBlack

    Speaking as a guy, I find a virgin much more attractive. Personally, I'm waiting till marriage but yeah. I don't think I'm the only guy.

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  • kaiki

    hell, i'm a thirty year old virgin, the time just hasn't been right. like the others have said, take your time, don't fret. when it's time, it's time.

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  • There's nothing wrong with you. Have sex when you're comfortable enough with yourself. Don't rush, seriously.

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  • SammyX

    I was 25 when i lost my virginity. Im glad i waited, i just didnt want to do it with any random guy. I wanted to be in a relationship. Im 26 now and only slept with 2 people and im proud. You should be too, its nothing to be ashamed of like i thought it was, it just shows your sensible and waiting rather than doing it because everyone else is x

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  • forgotmyusername

    okay, i'm not against christian morals by any means, but i personally think it's better to have sex before marriage - and here's why.
    sex is something you should do if you feel ready and if you love the person you're doing it with, yeah. but sexual attraction and good chemistry is a crucial element in any relationship, and if you marry someone before you experience that with them, how are you going to know that the sexual chemistry is there ? for want of a better similie, it's like buying a car without test driving it.

    floyd is right though - don't rush. and i mean for anything. don't rush to have sex, don't rush to get married. just take it easy, and if you find yourself in the situation and you're comfortable, then i say do it.

    also report that piece of shit that molested you and if he doesn't get slammed, then make it your hobby to ensure that everyone out there is aware that he's a predator.

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  • C__freak

    Congratiolation sweetheart you the best,and it will be worth waiting for.my wife n I were vitgins to went together 5 years n married, I was 22 n she was 18, been married 38 yrs. Good Luck swaseetheasrt

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  • MyMotherCanGoDie

    Got a facebook? If you're bangable I'll take care of your virgin issue.

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  • stinky55

    Look, You stated you were touched by a creepy old dude. There is nothing wrong with you. Now what is wrong is, You need therapy. By that old creeper touching you. It left a mark. A mark that needs to be put to rest. A sexual touch means you were violated. My daughter had a teacher do the samething to her. I nipped that real quick. She got therapy and it helped her mend. You might think you are ok. But once you talk to someone you will find that incident scared you. I might be way off. But that's what I think you should do. Now about being a virgin. I commend you on this. Takes loads of will power these days not to have sex. Hope this helps.

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  • crzchick

    Hi... I 26 and one year ago I was just exactly like you! Then I found my current boyfriend... I lost my virginity with him but I honestly feel I should have put more effort in the past to find someone to lose it sooner... I think its important to have sex with more than one person... on the other hand I see couples just like me and it's okay... I also don't feel so good with this 'late bloom', but lets move forward like everyone else...

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  • INTENTGUY

    Wait did you just say you got touchted?

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  • MostlyCorrect

    First and foremost it is 1000% normal to be a virgin at that age. The fact that sex kind of creeps you out is an issue you need to address. Things like that can fester and ruin what can be a great experience for you. You are normal but you have some weight carried around with you due to that jackass. Talk to somebody about it and do not feel in the least shy about talking to a professional about it - talking about issues fixes them. Seriously.

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  • Lawson926

    As of sept 26,im now a 20yo virgin myself. I didnt want to wait til marriage to do it but when i look at how miserable other ppl are who are having sex,it makes me want to wait. The main reason im a virgin is bcuz im TOO shy to do anything about. Its 2011. Tv,movies,and songs of today makes it seem like being a virgin is like a terrible disease. Ppl ask me if im a virgin all the time and when they do my shyness goes out the window and yell "hell yes". The way i think about it is that when the time come,im going to be giving the girl a piece of me(my virginity)and that it would make me feel that much closer to her. U should think about it that way 2

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  • alv1592

    Sex isn't the most important thing. Just wait until you find the right guy.

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  • sparrowfeed

    this is not bad. I was 22 when I lost mine, and no BF before that!

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  • Death_Rises

    WELL PUT UR SELF OUT THERE XD SEE WAT HAPPENES

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  • dandaldaks

    have sex it is better for you, studies even have proven it

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