Is it normal to be 8 months pregnant and have to leave home to get hotel b/c hu

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I am 8 months preg and baby could actually come at anytime with all health problems. My husband invited a few friends to come visit and hunt. They brought a puppy that has shit in the nursery, I have cleaned up mud constantly because they track it in house. I have been put on bed rest from doctor. I am miserable. Husband is consumed with keeping them entertained. Our toilet overflowed and backed up all plumbing in house. The house us a wreck. He has blamed me for plumbing by lashing out anger. Today he took them to lunch after a big hunt and did not call me to see if I wanted anything. He drove my car to take them and I did not have a car, live 10 miles from nearest town. I got so upset I came to motel for evening. Have been here since 2, he contacted me finally three hours later, I told him where I was and he texted me back some bullshit he did not ask me to come home and did not offer to come get me. It has been 12 hours since I left house. Am do hurt, I cannot figure this out.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    It sounds like you're married to a complete bastard. I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Do you have any family that can help you? If I were you I'd get my car back from this pure asshole that you're married to as soon as possible.

    Maybe if you're lucky he'll die in a tragic hunting accident and you'll receive a life insurance payout. You might find that you may need a divorce. A man child tends to not make a good husband or father.

    I had to divorce an alcoholic piece of shit about 6 years ago. I was pregnant and all he wanted to do was get drunk and play stupid video games. He was unemployed and too lazy to look for work. I had a rough pregnancy and lost it around 17 weeks. I've got a lot of emotional baggage, and I miss my lost child, but the one thing I have never regretted and never will regret is divorcing my loser ex husband.

    I wish all the best for you and your baby! Be strong for the sake of your unborn child, and don't take any shit off of that piece of shit you're married to, because you deserve so much better!

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    • 101714
      9 years ago

      nice said girl you rock

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago

        Thank you!
        *curtseys deeply*

        *Starts singing*
        "Backstreets back..."

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  • juicy_goon
    9 years ago

    You married the wrong guy. Your life will never make any sense as long as he is around. Hope you can move back in with your parents.

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  • normalpeoplescareme23
    8 years ago

    He's a fucking dick, just sign the divorce papers. He doesn't deserves you.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Leave him. He doesn't give a samba out you or the baby, only himself. Do you have any relatives or friends that you could stay with if you were to call and tell them about the situation?

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  • Ellenna
    9 years ago

    Are there Women's Refuges where you live? Surely you'd be eligible for some emergency help in your situation.

    I know it's awful for you right now, but better to get away from this creature before the baby comes, because it'll be ever harder then.

    Parents/family/friends? Anywhere would be better than going home. If the car is in your name, check if police will help you get it back: don't go near this so-called husband.

    I wish you well and please, please, let us know what happens!

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