Is it normal to be 100% accommodating and selfless to everyone all of the time?

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i torture myself into being as giving as i can possibly be. If i thought that my breathing would take the air away from someone else, i would try to stop doing it to give that person a chance to breathe and live. i try to do this with everyone, everyday, in every action that i take all the time and if i fail i am a horrible, terrible, awful person who needs to be punished in the most severe and uncompromising way. That is the purpose of my life, period.

is this normal?

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23% Normal
Based on 22 votes (5 yes)
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  • noid
    9 years ago

    See a therapist.

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  • Brownblowout
    9 years ago

    Are you a doormat

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  • natdrum
    9 years ago

    No it's not but I act pretty much the same way. I fucking hate it; in the situation I can't help but being friendly even if I know they're trying to bullshit me in a way or another.
    Afterwards I just want to smack myself for being so stupid.. "Why didn't I just tell them that I know they were trying to bullshit me? Now they just think I was too big of an idiot to realize it.."

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    9 years ago

    what if i am in the same room as the Nobel Peace Prize winner and we both were about to die, but if i chose to suffocate myself, with my own clothes, they would live. Who am i to deny the Nobel Peace Prize winner the chance to do further good in this world? i am a nothing, a nobody, in fact my greatest contribution to the world would be to give my last breath to someone who would do greater things than me.

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    • Ellenna
      9 years ago

      NOBODY is a nothing or a nobody. I find it hard to believe you're serious.

      Neither of those scenario's are likely or in the case of the second one, even possible, so I'd need a lot more evidence to believe you're genuine.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Not normal. Most people would just see you as someone to take advantage of and you are actually doing them a disservice because you teach them it is ok to take advantage of others, and most people will not tolerate that behavior from people. The people you are "helping" will learn it is ok to use people and in the end they will suffer because nobody else will want to be around them.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Didn't you already post about tthis once before.
    :-(

    I suspect your trying to play a martyr role, because you want us to feel sorry for you.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Not only is it very not normal, I don't think it's even possible.
    I suspect you are a masochist and this is the way you achieve your need to be punished. "I've been soooo bad. I must be punished." Now all you need is a sadist boy or girl friend and your life would be perfect.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      do you know me? you must, this is too accurate a picture of me for you NOT to know me...... o.O i must go punish myself now, for being found out.

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        Lmao. Thanks, I needed that.

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    • Ellenna
      9 years ago

      Not a good recommendation, gypsysailor, I've known quite a few sadists and been involved with some and believe me, give them a bit of power over someone else and they'll misuse it as far as they can get away with. With a true masochist like OP that could be very dangerous.

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